The Great Driving Debate

Do you and your spouse (or significant other) ever debate over who should drive when you are going out together? I know we do sometimes.

HER VIEW

Here is my take on it.  By the time I finish getting the kids ready ( baths, hair, food…etc.,) I want a break when I get into the car.  I feel like I do most of the work to get us to the point where we are ready to leave the house and therefore I should not have to drive.  However, I think my husband would like for me to drive more.  I disagree!!! 

 Basically, the only time I drive is when we have gone to a function that has alcoholic beverages.  I don’t mind being the designated driver and it allows my husband to enjoy himself and not worry about a DUI.  I also share the driving on long trips.

 Write me back and tell me how you feel about this? info@blackandmarriedwithkids.com

 HIS VIEW

Don’t tell anyone but generally I agree with what she said from above. Sometimes you just gotta give the misses a hard time. ha ha. My only thing is if you don’t drive 97% of the time we’re in the car together spare me the driving tips… if it bothers you that much guess who can drive? ha ha ha.

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About the author

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are the creators of the award-winning blog BlackandMarriedWithKids.com . They also are behind the Amazon.com bestselling DVDs Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me and their latest documentary Men Ain’t Boys that explores manhood in the African American community. The Tylers are also the proud parents of four children.

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