Turn Off the TV During Dinner!

 

How many of us have a TV in the kitchen or a TV that can be seen from the kitchen. I know we do and often times it is on while we are eating our family dinner each night.  Research shows that children that eat together with their families are less likely to drink, smoke, do drugs, have bad grades, and have eating disorders.  But it is not just the act of eating dinner itself that gives the benefits.  A study done with researhers from Harvard explains that it is the quality of conversation at mealtime that can contribute to the positive results.  While at dinner the children should be exposed to complex conversations rich with explanations and storytelling. For instance, if a new word is used during your discussions, you should stop and explain the meanings.

Eating dinner in a limited verbal environment will not have the same benefit.  So if you are eating dinner each night with the family..but the TV is on.. turn it off and start talking to the kids.

For more on this topic, check out this segment from NPR on The Family Dinner Deconstructed.


About the author

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are the creators of the award-winning blog BlackandMarriedWithKids.com . They also are behind the Amazon.com bestselling DVDs Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me and their latest documentary Men Ain’t Boys that explores manhood in the African American community. The Tylers are also the proud parents of four children.



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  1. TheDad Wednesday - 27 / 02 / 2008 Reply
    For anybody wondering that is not our TV in the picture -TheDad
  2. KRISTIE Wednesday - 27 / 02 / 2008 Reply
    I agree, we don't watch TV during dinner, this is a time to ask the kids what they did that day in school and a lot of times they will say I don't know, so we try to make it easier and say tell me something funny that happened today to kind of get them thinking and we end up getting a good laugh in at dinner time.
  3. Teems Wednesday - 27 / 02 / 2008 Reply
    About that TV....Lol.... I hope not! I had a TV in every room of my house except for the bathroom. My grandmother could not miss her "stories." Then again we rarely ate together with the various schedules in the house. I would not have a TV near the dining area of my own home. Thanks to DVR... Watching TV while eating with the family should never be an option.
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