10 Reasons Women Choose Men… and Why They Shouldn’t!

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by Lamar Tyler | on July 14th, 2008 | 4 comments

Freind of the blog, NML in the UK did a post on her blog “Baggae Reclaim”.

Here are the 10 reasons, you can check out her blog here for the full explanations of each:

1. He’s married/has a girlfriend
2. He’s really good at his job.
3. He has a lot of friends/everybody respects him
4. He’s really well educated
5. He goes to church/very religious
6. He’s a great lover/there’s a lot of sexual tension
7. He’s financially well off/good with money
8. His friends say that he’s great
9. He’s really close with his parents
10. He has a good sense of humour

For each pick NML breaks down what women deduce because of these and then what the reality of the situation is. Defiinitely worth checking out. After you get done let us know what you think about the list!

About the author

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are the creators of the award-winning blog BlackandMarriedWithKids.com . They also are behind the Amazon.com bestselling DVDs Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me and Men Ain’t Boys that explores manhood in the African American community. The Tylers are also the proud parents of four children.

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Kelli Monday - 14 / 07 / 2008 Reply

Good Blog!!!
LAMAR Tuesday - 15 / 07 / 2008 Reply

Well if you think those tens things are bad, just come up w/ten things about a thugs that you like. 1. He whips my ass when I speak out of line. 2. He cheats and I love it. 3. He's been in jail and I know he's been raped. 4. He stinks, and I love it. 5. He looks like he's pumped w/steroids 6. He ain't gonna take care of my kids. 7. He ain't got no money so he needs me. 8. One day he's gonna up and leave w/out telling me shit. 9. He's been sleeping w/my best friend. 10.He's been after my mom.
Anonymous Friday - 18 / 07 / 2008 Reply

i do not think women really want thugs, but for me i want a man that can handle his business at home and have a backbone. a lot of guys if they are too soft spoken will not challenge things off the beaten path, a woman always want to feel that her man has her back. the reason you see women acting a little crazy in a reasturant is because the waiter or waitress is not doing their job and the man just want to pay the check and get out of there, the man should speak up. You do not have to be a thug to handle your business just handle it even if your heart is pounding and you think you might faint, when you do this you become a hero and just think what will happen when you get home if you spoke up and the lights go off yeah it is on, if you did not as soon as you get in the door you will hear this, your butt just set there while that waitress disrespected us and now i have a police record. I hope you guys are getting what i am saying every woman wants to feel protected, it was dr. phil that said look buddy if you have a problem with my wife you have a problem with me. I know dr. phil is not a thug but that day he became one of my heroes.
- Fmcneillii Tuesday - 22 / 06 / 2010 Reply
  
  honestly if you acting crazy in a restaurant, I might rethink being with you. I back you up when you in the right otherwise you need to control yourself. A crazy woman is unattractive.