Comments on: Celebrity Guest Post: Judge Lynn Toler - Divorce Court

By: darius braswell

darius braswell — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:08:36 +0000

WELL YOU SHOULD MARRIED ONLY IF YOU SEE YOURSELF WITH THAT PERSON FOR A LIFETIME DON’T MARRIED IF YOU ONLY KNOW THEM FOR 4 MONTHS OR 4 WEEKS , I MADE A MAJOR MISTAKE IN MY LIFE BY NOT KNOWING THAT PERSON, WELL SO I GOT DIVORCE TWICE, IF THEY HAVE KIDS MAKE SURE YOU AND THEM GET ALONG IF NOT YOU ASKING FOR A LOT OF TROUBLE, AND MAKE SURE THEY OVER THERE EX’S IF NOT YOU WILL HAVE TROUBLE ALSO. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE THINGS IN COMMONING BESIDE SEX, IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WANT OTHER PEOPLE DON’T GET MARRIED YOU’RE WASTING THERE TIME AND YOURS, ASK ABOUT MONEY IF THERE IN DEBT YOU WILL NOT HAVE A HAPPY MARRIAGES, MAKE SURE THEY ARE NOT MOTHER BABY OR DADDY BABY IF THEY ARE YOU WILL BE BE DEALING THERE PARENTS IN YOUR MARRIAGES, DON’T BRING A CHILD IN A MARRIAGES UNLESS YOU ARE READY FOR IT,

By: El aine J. Hawkins

El aine J. Hawkins — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 02:40:46 +0000

I always make it a RULE to watch the two half hour programs of Divorce Court starring The Honorable Lynn Toler. I enjoy her wisdom very much and must admit I was a martyr like her I did E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G except cut the grass. My sorry drunk of an excuse husband wouldn’t even take the garbage out or set it out on the curb. Every now and then he’d take his lazy fingers, lift up a pan or pot and cook a dinner. Now I wondering why he even bothered except he figured he would ‘get some’ that night.

When I left him I didn’t miss him. I did the things I always did and my kids expected things too. My ruoe was get it done or let me know before I come home, cause once I park the car in the garage I’m HOME all night. Worked some days and some days not. My then 10 yr old son could clean better than me and many times coming home from work while his sister was in college the house would be spic and span.

Now it’s just me and I find time to polish my nails, get my hair done, go to the show (by myself) and out to dinner too. I buy my own roses get my dvd’s and enjoy my evenings. My daughter is married and I told her make sure she doesn’t be a superwoman like her mom. However, sometimes when someone helps out they just might do a half job and that’s not too my liking either. It’s just better when I do it myself.

Recently I broke my ankle and my daughter came to help me out.I’m laughing now at what she did…She REARRANGED E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G in my kitchen and pantry. What she didn’t like she ‘hid’ or threw out. JMy son became a slob for the time being in his apartment, but he has to live with it.I guess the rule of thumb for me is TAKE YOUR TIME…. doesn’t have to be ALL done in ONE day, and get some ‘ME TIME’.

By: BETTIE WEBB

BETTIE WEBB — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:51:14 +0000

JUDGE LYNN, I HAVE THE GREATEST RESPECT FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM REGARDING DECENT HUMAN BEHAVIOR. I HAVE READ MY MOTHER’S RULES AND IT HAS HELPED ME GAIN TREMENDOUS INSIGHT INTO MY OWN ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOR. KUDOS TO BEING THE NEW DIVORCE COURT JUDGE. YOU ARE DOING A
GREAT JOB. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND BEST WISHES FOR MANY MORE.

By: Janice M. Proctor

Janice M. Proctor — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 22:48:48 +0000

Dear Judge….I saw your show today and it was very emotional. It was the case of a Mrs. Brown and her husband. Once you responded, by his insensitive comment about “women,” it really made me upset with him!! But you told him just what, “most” women with “self esteem” and a lot of other things, he needed to hear!!! Thank you!!!! He showed his ignorance and he thought he was so cool and had his chest stuck out like he was “the man.” Well he wasn’t!!! He was actually a low life and he really need some mentoring in “manhood.” Thank you for saying the things that you said to him today and I know it touched you. You are such a great woman and I truly admire you.

Janice M. Proctor

By: Mens Divorce Tactics

Mens Divorce Tactics — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:22:42 +0000

Men, divorce should be considered as a last resort to fix a relationship problem. This type of procedure is very serious and it has to be a decision that is well thought out before attempting to start the process. When you are filing for divorce, you will want to notify the court that you are going to proceed with the dissolution of your marriage. You will file a summons and petition the court in your county. Before you decide to file for divorce, you will want to choose the proper state and county to file your papers. You must make sure that you are ready for the long haul in a divorce. There are going to be many different alternatives in a divorce proceeding. You will probably find it to be necessary to hire and attorney to take care of the proceedings in your divorce.

By: Sherre

Sherre — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 13:03:52 +0000

Greetings All,

I enjoyed reading the posting Judge Lynn Toler submitted. Balance is ‘CRUCIAL’ to married couples with or without children (but definitely with children).

As a mother of two boys, I have always believed that ages 6-10 were ideal for me as a mom. Like Judge Toler, I advise my children (and sometimes my husband) that I am not here - I will either leave the room or just tune them out for at least an hour. For me, this time helps me focus on what I need to do next to keep my family moving in a healthy and positive direction.

Usually, during that time, I either study my Bible or watch some romantic & humorous sitcom or movie. Of course, there are those times when I have the time to do neither. That’s when I forget about self, and just keep moving until it’s time for bed.

By: Supa 10

Supa 10 — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 15:19:40 +0000

Hi Judge Toler, I’m a big fan of yours and respect most of your opinions.I am a happily married black man who doesn’t mind cooking cleaning ,@ doing the dishes.I normally do the cooking on weekdays because im usually home first. So occasionally I do laundry and other inside chores, while still handling all of yardwork and pool cleanings.It might be that your husband is a little offended with some of the household chores, but is coming to terms with the fact that both of you is bringing home the bacon and he needs to step up on some of the household chores. If he is not complaining and insisting that it doesnt bother him to wash dishes/mop ,etc. then let it go, he’s trying make the adjustment.

By: doris

doris — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 13:43:09 +0000

The home situation will take a bit of doing, the change will come when women break out of the head set that she is the one who has to do and hold everything tohether. It might be to the working woman/judge’s health and happiness to hire a cleaning woman 2 a week. I know you might be having a hard time with this, but it sure will ease your burden if the family can’t find a way to do their share. A house meeting may help to put all family members on notice that all the living is too much for a woman alone, because you aren’t really Super/Wonder/Iron woman. Don’t hold it back communication is what your family needs. Somebody might get mad, but they sure get glad quick when you shut down the goodtime party. To woman everywhere, take care of yourself and love your family, but life is meant to be enjoyed.

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By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:28:45 +0000

You had me there for a moment thinking you grew up with domestic help but as soon as you wrote dust rag i knew you were the one dusting with a dust (rag).