Little Girl Freaking On Little Boy… We’ve Got To Do Better!
20 August 2008
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What you’re about to watch is a sad commentary on the state of things. There actually seem to be adults in the room hyping them up also, I’m just hoping those aren’t adults and are teens (they should know better too). At what point did this become cool?
BMWK what the h#$% were the adults in the room thinking besides this is cute? Where is the breakdown? Is this the results of letting your kids listen to Lil Wayne’s lollipop over and over thinking they’ll never know what it really means? What would you do if you walked around the corner and saw your little kid doing this? Give us your thoughts on this mess.
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This is the most diisurbining thing that I have ever seen, aside frorm kids and teachers beating each other up. Who the hell in thier right mind would allow this to happen, let alone tape it. It is a sad thing that our next generation will be our voice and only want to put us in a pissy ass nursing home and swindle our hard worked earnings away. This is an example of a generation gone wild. Parenting is a hard enouh job without the children turning into sexual gyraters. Parents wake up. This could be your child. Did they lean this from tv, on the block or what? This is sad that there was a whole audience of adults that let it happen and thought it was acceptable. When little Billy tells you to go “f” yourself and because he his two and you don’t corret him, this is what you get. I am not the one. . I don’t spank my kids but i also do not condome this type of behavior. SMH wondering WTF. sorry for cursing. Nothiing cute about this.
I saw this the other day & couldn’t get past the 40 second mark. Its a sin & a shame.
Some triflin folks think its cute when their child’s 1st word is “sh*t” or “f*ck”. So common.
My child would know better or get snatched up QUICK, otherwise.
But, there are grownups all around, cheerin them on b/c they think its funny & its not.
Wow this is just stupid, this is why i keep saying to young people who have decided to have kids, get a good educaion, you cannot take your kids any further than you are, these people really think that is cute. I know i freak out when i am with my grandkids and we are walking and all of a sudden they start to wiggle no ipod or cd playing i guess it is the music in their head i will say stop wiggling you look crazy. We have got to want better for our kids, that video almost made me sick.
spank your children - or someone going to be young grandparents
SMH
My mother would have been on YouTube for a whole ‘nother reason: “YOUNG BLACK GIRL GETS THE BREAKS BEAT OFFA HER AFTER GYRATING ON SOME PEAKNUCKLE HEAD BOY” (the other adults just stood there clapping and telling their kids. “if you ever tried that, the same d@mn thang will happen to you.”…..LOL.LOL.
child please. thse kids have no examples and this is the end result. we are in a state of emergency. parents must instill values from the time they are toddlers.
Simple Rules:
1. go to church (don’t put your kids on the joy bus, go with them..lol.)
2. no whining. no back talk.
3. perfect your “killer side-eye look” that stops kids in their tracks…..if you have to convulse or foam at the mouth…even better!
4. if number 2 and 3 fail…….whoop….that…..tail.
Sorry to say, these kids are just imitating what they see mom or dad aunt or uncle, big sister or brother, or even grandma doing. And then they spread it to their classmates. They’re not imitating it just because they may have seen it on tv. For some people of a certain class, they don’t see a problem with it and encourage it and are PROUD of it. I don’t think these kids even understand what they’re doing! This is nothing more than a pedophile’s dream. Then there’s the other 98% of us who see the problem with it. But we’re considered uppity for disapproving of course. Sad but true.
I know if I ever saw one of my nieces or nephews doing such things I’d be on the news for knocking their butts into next year. My kids will never dream of doing such things because 1. I won’t expose my children to it, 2. I will knock them and whoever exposed my child to it into next year.
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Saw this on another site and I was disgusted. I remember at my school dances if you were dancing too close a teacher would come and separate you. How times have changed. I would be livid if I ever saw my daughter doing that. You’ll see me marching over there to snatch her ass right off the dance floor. She’ll be embarrassed, but I’ll just explain to her later how she just embarrassed herself
My kids know:don’t even think about it. ROTFL at ewok’s and Misbeehaving comments with an Amen. Seriously, we are indeed in a state of emergency in our community. Our moral values have all but disappeared. We have to set a better example, children do what we do not what we say.
@ Tina - Do you think that this and other foolishness going on is a class issue?
Everyone else please feel free to respond.
We posted this on HipHossip and we got so much hate mail from the Carribean community which is 50% of Toronto. These are the Caribana dances the adults do and this kiddie party was in where else Jamaica, NY
http://www.hiphossip.com/2008/08/carribean-culture-gone-bad.html
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…Tina hit the nail on the head - kids imitate what they see! As for the class comment…not sure about that, for one its a little stereotypical…i think its more about morals and standards, and these children are surrounded and exposed to this foolishenss by negative, immature, ignorant, individuals.
@thedad: yes, I do. I used to teach in various places, ranging from the lower class to the upper class. All w/ majority of students of color. This type of foolishness wasn’t tolerated when it came to the middle or upper class. But it was rampant with the lower class. That’s where my class comment comes from - my personal experience with children and parents/guardians of various socioeconomic backgrounds and which group was predominately engaged in that particular behavior and encouraged it.
However - that is not to say that it’s all people of the lower class and the other classes can do no wrong - we all know there are always exceptions. Stereotypes exist for a reason - because there are people out there that fit the stereotype and are proud of it and embrace it no matter how foolish it is. The problem is if you lump EVERYONE into that category - which I try to never do. I said that 98% of us would disapprove, meaning that I believe the majority of the black population encompassing all classes would have a problem with what was shown in that video. (I should have clarified that though)
Just another 2 cents.
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@tina- Fair enough, I was just wondering your opinion and wondering how much class is beginning to devide the black community
Watching this video made me feel ill. I had to think about this one. The problem is not the dancing, it’s the AGE of people in it. Adults, fine, kids, hell no.
Children who behave in a sexualized way are tempting targets for pedophiles.
I think the kids are at risk for becoming over-stimulated and are more prone to early sexual behavior.
This video is also likely to become a target of the racist elements in the media who go out of their way to demonize blacks to make white America think we all raise our kids like this. They can’t even handle it when they see this kind of dancing by adults because of their Puritanical upbringing and fears of black sexuality.
It gives them one more excuse to hate us.
I wouldn’t give a hoot if they hated us or not, considering all the evils they’ve done to us, ie, slavery, rapes, lynching, and rampant discrimination, except that their political and economic power is used against us.
This video unfortunately is another piece of ammo for them.
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@thedad: I don’t know about the class divide really. I can’t say if it truly exists or if it’s just something thrown out there by the media to further try and divide blacks in America. It’s something that I’d probably want to research one day.
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That was so disgusting. I couldn’t even watch it all. I don’t know how people could stand there even for a second and let that sh*t play out. That’s more than Lil Wayne videos - that’s bad upbringing. If I even tried to do something like that now (and I’m 31) I’m sure my parents would give me the beat down! This is how promiscuity starts and NO child should be dancing in this way. Their behaviour is beyond inappropriate and totally unacceptable and it does give a distorted image of black people, even though it really shouldn’t. I agree with the other commenters - no morals and no concept of respect or right or wrong.
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that shit is messed up. Horrible parents, I hope the kids don’t end up on the streets because of this stupidity
they talk about placing a child in TIME OUT! and then why are we having so many single mothers- you sit there and let your child perform a dance like this and when she turns 12, 13, 14 you ready to beat her, dis- own, put her out of your house! and you as a parent BIRTH THIS CHILD! this child did ot ask to come into this world! Now that she is here she is searching for your guidence, you to lead and guide her in the right direction! then we sit here and say, if she was my child I’ll knock her out, or my daughter would know better, she would have got a beat down -
STOP!
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO ABOUT RACE!!
this child is only acting out what she has seen OTHERS DO, and maybe even what she has been told to do - This is sad - and no one seems to know what to do about it…. what can we do?…
The parents need the SHIT smacked out of them. Its alot of other things those kids can be taught. Mines can’t even watch certain things on T.V. It’s called be a PARENT!!! I’m a single black mother, so don’t use that as an excuse.
just shows where we are as parents today and still fucked up….
in some way this does come down to a issue of luxury and resources. when i was a child my parents had the resources to ensure i stayed in a childs world. if they wanted to hit the disco (which they did, i have the pix, lol), they could afford a baby-sitter. i had a playroom, they had a rec room in the basement. my behind still stings from the time i thought i would be cute and march in on the grown folks.
i know people who are forced because of circumstances to bring their kids along, so their kids see (and imitate) adult behaviors.
This is why some people should NEVER have children!
Did I see older folk in the video watching? Did they think this was cute? Our children learn from examples. A book in their lap would set a better exaple.
This is reason Child Protecive Sevices exists!
This realllly hearts my heart to watch…People think that music, and their words have no power…but just look at those children…and the others around us…what is it that we are really teaching our children? or for those us who do not have the time to teach the kids, what is it that we are letting other things and people teach them for us…Parents, guardians, teachers, song writer, whatever authority you have over the mind of a child need to take this more seriously…I am almost drown to tears…but kids are blank slates, and they only repeat the actions of us adults…so we need to wake up big time!!!
DISTGUSTING!!!!!!
The adults need to go to jail this is exploitation at its finest!
MY HEART BREAKES FOR THESE CHILDREN. IF THIS IS WHAT THEY ARE LEARNING AT THIS AGE REST TO SURE MOST OF THEM WILL BE 12 AND THIRTEEN Y/O PARENTS TEACHING THEIR CHILDREN THE SAME THING…….THE CYCLE MUST CHANGE PEOPLE… TEACH YOUR KIDS TO RESPECT THEIR THEMSELVES AND BODYS
OK, I have seen the video and read the comments.
This made me ponder. If you see a child act the way this one did, or doing something that they shouldn’t be doing, would you step in?
We can all sit back and comment till the cows come home, but when faced with another persons child misbehaving, would you have the nerve to step in?
What if it was the parent? Would you step in then as well?
Just thinking…Any comments?
Sad for the kids; the “adult” voices are showering them with cheers as if this is good. So the kids continue, trying to please the crowd. How can this child be popping her butt so well? And the little boy knows how to position himself? It’s not the fault of these children… where’s mommy and daddy??
Ok, first off. If you listen carefully they are speaking SPANISH in the background. I don’t think these are african american kids. I think they are either Dominican or from another Latina heritage. Nonetheless whom ever it is, it’s DISGUSTING. You mean to tell me that we have no common sense but to watch 8 year old (looks like) bump and grind each other. And the BOY doesn’t even know what to do, he’s just doing what the crowd is iggin him to do. This is a disgrace and truly embarassing for anyone. Somebody needs to find out where these people live and interview there asses just for the hell of it, then what will they say! Igorance is BLISS!
What is this world coming to? Mothers of these children in this video should be locked up!! This is NOT CUTE! Mothers, go and get yourself some real education! you won’t think it cute when that same little girl comes home with a baby in her belly or even worse dies of AIDS before she reaches 20 yrs. old because YOU allowed and thought it CUTE that she rub up her body on a little boy, that little boy looked like he was too afraid to do anything, but you can see that he was prodded to do what he was doing, while the little girl wound up her pelvis and backside on him. Mothers, you need JESUS in your life and education in your brains!!! There is no excuse for being illiterate in this day and age. Get out of the DARK and come into the LIGHT…..JESUS is the light of the WORLD! Oh, Sandra..I think they were speaking Patwa (Jamaican Slang)
If I were there, I’d pull them apart and ease them into a swaying groove and while holding their hands, have them sway my way; showing them a different form of modern dance that is acceptable in the sight of God and others whom enjoy watching children being children of class without shaking that ass. (In fact, without touching at all!!)
That video is the most disgraceful video I’ve ever witnessed of our children “dancing”! It should be taken offline and burned … sent back to hell, along with the parents, in a false sense of pride, who agreed to urge their children to participate in such devilish movements. Yes, that’s right, I said it! False sense of pride … if the parents were proud, then let’s go back to the grandparents, who I am sure might have them go out and get a switch for them even in these times. Children are too precious and should be taught from the Bible. They should be taught to respect their precious bodies and that there are some movements that their bodies JUST DON’T MAKE because “others” think it’s cute” … AND THAT IF THE WRONG PERSON SEES THEM MAKE THOSE MOVEMENTS, MIGHT JUST GET THEM INTO TROUBLE. (I’m thinking rape, for example, by a sick “turned-on” adult male in the crowd.)
So, all I can do is the best that I can do:
P.U.S.H. - Pray Until Something Happens
A.S.A.P. - Always Say A Prayer
… for all the children in our world who are misguided.
Simply speaking these parents or adults at this gathering can and should be arrested for child abuse and endangering the welfare of minors. If and when the origin or location of where this offensive behavior occurred….. trust me police will arrest and prosecute the adults involved.
WOW! I can’t think of the words to describe how I feel after seeing that video. It does not matter to me if they are Jamaican, African, African American or Alaskan-no child of any race should be encouraged to not only learn that type of behavior but to put it on display. Every adult in that room should be sent to child rearing classes. This is just the type of video White folks LOVE to see and laugh at and show at parties. Shame On The Adults!
We say how did my baby girl or boy end up pregnant or fathering a child, it starts like this. Train up a child in the way he/she should go and when they are old they will walk in it.
Ya’ know that’s “RIGHT”
Wow! We are in a for a world of hurt. It is not the fault of the children but the asinine adults who set that up and thought it was cute to watch. Plus no one in the crowd thought enough to halt the production. Even video taped it. Poor Obama, he has his work cut out for him!
Shoot mother. Whoop the s&*^ out of the child. This is deradgrading to black youth of today. If I saw my 31 year old daughter do this in front of me I would whoop her also.
I couldn’t even watch the whole video, it was too much for me! It is bad enough they are dancing like it is cute, but the nerve of them to record it!
Where are the parents? The parents are the ones that need to be spanked. I feel sorry for those kids. It’s opening a door that they aren’t ready for. What’s the difference from what we just watch than watching kiddy porno?
I got this in an email last week from my sister in GA and I have been pissed off at the Mama for weeks somebody somewhere needs to contact the CPS (child protection services) and remove the baby from the home, but the really sad party about this viedo is that she probably cant read a DAMN word but can DROP IT LIKE IT IS HOT!!!!! you say hot ghetto mess, I say DAMN SHAME!!!!!
Like Bernie Mac said, RIP, beat them (kids & their parents ) until the white meat show because that is a disgrace before God.
THIS SHIT IS SO OUTRAGEOUS, I PUT THE BLAME ON THE PARENT(s) IT IS TOTALLY THEIR FAULT THAT KIDS GROW UP So FAST NOW A DAYZ….
what happen to pin the tail on the donkey or musical chairs? Oh may God ! I never thought i would see children dancing like adults and the parents cheering them on . PLEASE PRAY FOR PARENTS OF THESE CHILDREN!!! THEY NEED HELP!
As therapist for convicted sex offenders, this behavior is a form of child pornography, and the parents/adults involved should be consequenced. My heart hurts for these and all the other children out there that are sexually exploited by adults in their lives that they should be trust will keep them safe.
In my opinion you are WRONG you CAN NOT blame artist for the things children learn…………Children pick up things from there surroundings.Many parents find it cute for their daughters to be dancing any type of way. I blame it on the parents. I have a little cousin who dances and she came to Ny doing all these freaky moves.I asked her where did she learn it she said her friends, her mother had no idea she could do those things.Even when i was a child I would pick up little information on things and run with it.In all honesty parents need to start watching what their kid are around and paying attention to
Im have three children who are from a completely different generation and I simply have to raise them like I was raised. I got my behind whipped for even saying the word lie. All these new slang words and dances cross the line. I tell them they better know how to spell the dances before they try one damn step!
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