Ladies – 5 Things To Help You With Your Man
I saw this on the web the other day. It was from an article called “5 Talk-To-Him Truths That Can Keep Your Bond Strong”.
1. Guys Crave Short and Sweet Compliments
“save the sappy stuff for your girlfriends and adopt a less-is-more attitude instead. Short and sweet lines (think “I had no doubt you’d get that promotion!”) will mean more to your man than raving about how he’s the next Donald.”
2. Men Savor Silence
“Let’s say you and your guy have just had amazing sex. You’re curled up in each other’s arms, enjoying the post-booty buzz, when two things happen simultaneously: You’re overcome with an urge to confess that you’ve never felt closer to him…right as he’s closing his eyes to enjoy the afterglow”
3. Dudes Don’t Have to Hash Out All of Their Probs
“Women circle around dilemmas with discussions to tackle them, but men prefer to skip the chitchat and fast-track to the solution.”
4. Your Crying Can Freak Him Out
“Take a look at it from his perspective. One minute you’re seemingly happy, the next you spill some milk and start bawling. If there’s no obvious, tangible problem to match the tears, the emotional outpouring appears to be a huge overreaction, so your guy doesn’t show you a whole lot of sympathy. The problem: This in turn hurts you.”
5. “Sorry” Isn’t His Only Way to Make Up
“While women need to give (and hear) that verbal apology right after a fight to feel like it’s over, men don’t. “It’s not in their makeup to dwell,” explains therapist Nina Atwood, author of Soul Talk. So once the fight has seemingly ended — meaning, you’ve stopped verbally battling — they move on.”
BMWK what do you think about the latest list? Was it true? What would you add? Is this how men really feel?
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