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I Love My Spouse Because…

October 29, 2008 · View Comments

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Fill in the blanks. Often we can say what the person holding up the other half of our realtionship is not doing or how they are getting on our nerves at the drop of a dime. Well this post is just the opposite. Tell us why you love them and why they’re so great.

Finish the sentence: I Love My Spouse Because…

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{ 31 comments }

Jewelryrockstar October 29, 2008 at 10:19 pm

Because he’s funny as hell, extremely brilliant, and very creative.

Jonesi October 30, 2008 at 12:11 am

Because he celebrates who I am and loves me flaws and all (Beyonce said it best!), extremely supportive and always encourages me to do my best, and more than anything he has defined what love is for me through his actions. I could go on forever but to have an intelligent, strong black man who wants to build a life with me is a blessing…can’t wait to marry him!

I appreciate this post. It is easier to focus on the negative but because no one on this earth is perfect, focusing on the negative aspects of the relationship or characteristics of your mate is not only a distraction from the love that brought you together but discouraging and I pray that in my marriage we focus on uplifting one another…

distrotune October 30, 2008 at 3:16 am

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elle denise October 30, 2008 at 6:31 am

(Spouse = Boyfriend, in my case. LOL)

We LIKE each other… We LOVE each other… We respect ourselves & our relationship… We keep outsiders OUT… We get along great… We were FRIENDS, 1st… We have fun! We can be serious… We have great/intelligent convo… We’re honest with ourselves & each other… We just “click”.

Kudos, BMWK! Its funny how people are so quick to run down the list of CONS, but ask them some of the PROS & they’re stuck. Makes you wonder why they’re even together, you know?

Good stuff… enjoy the weekend! :)

elle denises last blog post..12 Practical Holiday Gifts

SingLikeSassy October 30, 2008 at 7:04 am

Because he is the best, most patient, kindest, funniest, gentlest man I know and nobody has ever loved me like he does. Nobody.

And that aint everything, that’s just all I can type right now.

Leslie October 30, 2008 at 8:50 am

I digress from the actual topic, but I appreciate these posts. A recent boyfriend and I were discussing marriage, but I realized that couldn’t honestly say any of these things about him. We didn’t click, we didn’t have much in common (leaving little to converse about), he constantly made ‘jokes’ about all the other women that would love to have him, on top of it all, he called me his queen. Talk about an oxymoron. Ultimately, he loved me and I knew he did, but love can’t make me endure a relationship. I’d rather enjoy one with someone else. Anyway, thanks for giving me a glimpse of what I already know to be true – I only want to spend my life with the man God made especially for me. God bless you all, and your current/perspective relationships! :)

dede October 30, 2008 at 9:56 am

@LESLIE HOLD ON, HE WILL FIND YOU.

i love my husband, because he prayed for me, he says that i am his everything. he knows when to hold me, he is such a relaxed person, he lets me be me, he knows how to laugh, he knows how to make me laugh. he is a man.(all man)i don’t have to look after him like a child. he take care of his family, he is a lover, he is still the same man i met three years ago. he is responsible, respectful, and really great looking.

Lisa B October 30, 2008 at 11:43 am

Because he is truly considerate of my wants and needs…and is the most amazing father to our 3 young sons.

TheMom October 30, 2008 at 12:38 pm

I love my husband (TheDad) because: he is thoughtful, he is a good person, a good father to our kids, he loves me and let’s me know it all of the time through his actions and words, we have fun together and he is my best friend, when we started dating I told my friend he was a sweetie pie…and years later he is still my sweetie pie, he is a family man and loves to spend time with his family, he loves and respects my parents,…i could go on and on..he makes me feel lucky/blessed everyday that I am married to him!!!

TheMoms last blog post..Travel Tuesday: Skincare Tips for Travelers!

Misbeehavin October 30, 2008 at 1:11 pm

I love my husband because he is so funny, a great father, and he’s very thoughtful. Also, because he loves me for me. He’s truly my best friend.

SLB October 30, 2008 at 3:21 pm

Because he loves me for the person I am. Because he makes me laugh, because he listens to me. Because he is intelligent. Because he is a loving father, son, brother and uncle. Because I can talk to him. Because he is sexy. Because he is my BEST FRIEND.

Mocha Dad October 30, 2008 at 5:10 pm

Because she puts the awe is awesome!

l whack October 30, 2008 at 8:11 pm

because he is a hard working, compassionate,understanding,man.Plus he tries very hard to do what is right.

Anna October 30, 2008 at 8:51 pm

I love my husband because he doesn’t just teach, but leads by example, through him I have learned paitence. He makes me laugh and knows when to be serious. I love my husband because when we first met I said “what you see is what you get”. He still likes what he sees and what he is getting I know this because he not only shows me but tells me. I love my husband because he makes it easy to also “like” him. I also met my match because I have someone to debate with.

And the number one reason why I love my husband is…………..Because he loves me and my kids and married a ready made family and never complained.

DELILHA October 31, 2008 at 6:55 am

I love my husband because not everyday you find someone to connect with. He is my better half also because where I am weak he is strong and everything marriage should be, that God intended it to be it is. often I look back over other relationship some good and some bad but none could ever compare to this, he is my me of me. How I knew my husband was made for me was from the first kiss, whatever I thought and hope a kiss should, could, would be, it was and more. There at that moment I knew because everything around me stood still, the time, wind, everything was motionless. I love him because he loves me unconditionally.

T. Rogers October 31, 2008 at 4:48 pm

I can’t even list all of the reasons. I love my wife because she compliments me in so many different ways. When I truly draw close to her and operate in concert with her, we have a totally perfect package.

Plus, she makes beautiful babies! Well, she did have my help. :)

Angelica November 1, 2008 at 11:30 am

HE IS THE GREATEST FATHER,FRIEND,LOVER,PROVIDER,SUPPORTER .. IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER, THAT I COULD HAVE EVER DREAMED OF HAVING AS HEAD OF OUR FAMILY. THE MAN IS PATIENT AND TRUSTWORTHY!! I HONESTLY THINK THIS WAS ALL GOD FOR US TO BE SO IN SYNC WITH ONE ANOTHER;P I AM IN A PLACE IN LIFE WHERE I SEE THE BIG PICTURE AND THE LITTLE THINGS (CHALLENGES) ARE DISREGARDED;P

Jackie November 1, 2008 at 3:36 pm

I LOVE MY SPOUSE BECAUSE HE HAS A TRULY GOOD SOUL. HE LETS ME KNOW THAT I AM LOVED AND FOR THAT I LOVE HIM TOO.

Jackies last blog post..MY STASH

jvt913 November 2, 2008 at 9:50 am

I love her because my wife pushes everyone around her to do better. When I was at the academy I was thinking about quitting. The running was causing my knees were sore and I was tired. She promply told me stay with it this is what you wanted. At the PT test I was off by 15 sec. On the final I lowered my time by 55 seconds. A classroom best. On that day I turned 48. There were numerous times she has encourage me and others. Sometimes we all need a push

TheDad November 2, 2008 at 9:26 pm

I love TheMom because she’s my perfect match, my best friend, the best mother to my children I could ask for and I couldn’t imagine life without her stubborn butt.

Kandice November 3, 2008 at 8:24 am

Because he makes me laugh all the time and supports me in everything I do. I have found that after 9 years of marriage and 3 children, laughter is very important. If you start to take yourself too seriously in marriage, you’re in trouble.

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ayetina November 3, 2008 at 10:17 am

I love my spouse becuase he completes me and we compliment each other. He’s a wonderful husband and father. He makes me laugh all the time.

O.G. da O.G. November 3, 2008 at 1:10 pm

i love the ball n chain because of her capacity for compassion. How could you not love someone who loves you though all of your flaws and faults and mistakes. Sounds like GOD’s love to me. And she is intelligent and sexy…brains and beauty.

TheDad November 3, 2008 at 2:29 pm

We’ve gotten a great response from this and this post is much larger than I imagined when I put it up. Keep the answers coming!

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Dee November 3, 2008 at 11:13 pm

He still makes me laugh…and he’ll pick up my favorite treats when he knows I’m in a bad mood.

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CC December 1, 2008 at 3:55 pm

I Love him because he’s mime!!!!!!!

Harriet December 5, 2008 at 1:25 pm

He loves the Lord more than he loves me, which means he can love me the way the Lord loves me: unconditionally.

Additionally, because he loves the Lord so much, I don’t ever have to worry about him doing something outside the will of the Lord (adultery, abuse, etc).

Also because he is not a punk. We’re both very strong willed and I never wanted to marry anyone that could not lead me effectively.

A Gangstas Girl December 19, 2008 at 5:00 pm

He is my friend, lover, protector and provider. He never takes me for granted. He always lets me know that i’m appreciated whether it’s with words or his actions. He is an EXCELLENT father and most of all because he TRULY and GENUINELY loves me.

Deveter June 9, 2009 at 4:04 pm

he is a caring hands on father, because he is my best friend and first true love. because he gets ME and loves me for who I am. I Live Overjoyed & Victorious Everyday because of him!

Lamar June 9, 2009 at 5:38 pm

@Deveter- Wow, great comment.

Lamars last blog post..Travel Tuesday: Family Fun Getaway @ the Lansdowne Resort in VA!!!

joe October 2, 2009 at 2:22 am

im crazy and shes okay with it!

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