Comments on: I Love My Spouse Because… http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because Promoting Positive Images of Marriage and Parenting Since 2007 Sun, 12 Feb 2012 15:57:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Tammy http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-48414 Tammy Tue, 06 Dec 2011 06:38:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-48414 I love my husband because he treats me like a queen. He is a wonderful father who is multi-talented. He is the cook, beautician, lover, friend and a Godly man. Always willing to admit that he is wrong even though most of the time he's not. I love my husband because he is a strong, hardworking black man and I know that's a blessing. I love my husband because he treats me like a queen. He is a wonderful father who is multi-talented. He is the cook, beautician, lover, friend and a Godly man. Always willing to admit that he is wrong even though most of the time he’s not. I love my husband because he is a strong, hardworking black man and I know that’s a blessing.

]]> By: Maiesha Ross http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-48397 Maiesha Ross Tue, 06 Dec 2011 00:43:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-48397 Okay let me count the ways...1. He has called me every single day when he leaves his job since I met him and he has always come home on time but once. He was 15 minutes late and silly him filmed the traffic to show me. 2. He goes to lunch with me every day whether physically or by phone. It's his way of escaping the job and connecting with me in the middle of the day. 3. When he comes in the door he stops, takes his shoes off, drops his keys and wallet on the counter, kisses me then picks up our son and plays with him a minute. Every night in that order. Thought I would get bored with it but it actually makes me feel safe and secure because I know he loves me and his son so much that he wants to connect with us. 4. He has never missed a doctors appointment of mines or my son. Never. Our health is important to him and he puts us first no matter what. He actually went through some scrutiny on his job a couple of times but he let them know that we come first. 5. When we drive in the car he always hold my hand 6. He has told me I was beautiful when my hair was all over my head, I gained weight, when I was sick, when I was just lounging around in pajamas or jogging pants, etc just as many times as he did when I was all made up 7.He goes on his knees every night and pray for us and he says grace while holding our hands and it dont matter where we are. He is not ashamed of GOD and  giving him thanks. 8. He is a perfect gentleman. He opens doors, pulls our seats, carries bags, etc. 9 He listens to me and then reacts to what I say. I can not tell you how good it feels to know someone really cares about your feelings. It dont matter if it makes sense to him or anyone else. I dont like it, that's all he needs to know. He changes it, eliminates it, redirects it, etc. How can you argue with a man like him? He makes sure I am happy. He tells me all that time that is his main goal and he does a great job of it. 10. Three years ago he retired me and made me a stay at home wife and mom but he still shares the chores and child rearing everyday and respects the contributions I make to this family. 11. He is faithful, hardworking, selfless and loves GOD. He prepares for us now and for the future and even for when he is no longer on this earth. 12. He loves and respect my mom and our families. GOD could not have blest me with a better man. He is my king and I am thankful for one more time to brag on him because he truly deserves it! Okay let me count the ways…1. He has called me every single day when he leaves his job since I met him and he has always come home on time but once. He was 15 minutes late and silly him filmed the traffic to show me. 2. He goes to lunch with me every day whether physically or by phone. It’s his way of escaping the job and connecting with me in the middle of the day. 3. When he comes in the door he stops, takes his shoes off, drops his keys and wallet on the counter, kisses me then picks up our son and plays with him a minute. Every night in that order. Thought I would get bored with it but it actually makes me feel safe and secure because I know he loves me and his son so much that he wants to connect with us. 4. He has never missed a doctors appointment of mines or my son. Never. Our health is important to him and he puts us first no matter what. He actually went through some scrutiny on his job a couple of times but he let them know that we come first. 5. When we drive in the car he always hold my hand 6. He has told me I was beautiful when my hair was all over my head, I gained weight, when I was sick, when I was just lounging around in pajamas or jogging pants, etc just as many times as he did when I was all made up 7.He goes on his knees every night and pray for us and he says grace while holding our hands and it dont matter where we are. He is not ashamed of GOD and  giving him thanks. 8. He is a perfect gentleman. He opens doors, pulls our seats, carries bags, etc. 9 He listens to me and then reacts to what I say. I can not tell you how good it feels to know someone really cares about your feelings. It dont matter if it makes sense to him or anyone else. I dont like it, that’s all he needs to know. He changes it, eliminates it, redirects it, etc. How can you argue with a man like him? He makes sure I am happy. He tells me all that time that is his main goal and he does a great job of it. 10. Three years ago he retired me and made me a stay at home wife and mom but he still shares the chores and child rearing everyday and respects the contributions I make to this family. 11. He is faithful, hardworking, selfless and loves GOD. He prepares for us now and for the future and even for when he is no longer on this earth. 12. He loves and respect my mom and our families. GOD could not have blest me with a better man. He is my king and I am thankful for one more time to brag on him because he truly deserves it!

]]> By: Chone2shon http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-48391 Chone2shon Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:05:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-48391 He is my best friend and no matter what is going on, he is always there for me.... He is my best friend and no matter what is going on, he is always there for me….

]]> By: tia http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-48390 tia Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:04:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-48390 Because's he's patient with me, you know, long suffering. And he loves our son. And of course he's interesting, brilliant and talented. Because’s he’s patient with me, you know, long suffering. And he loves our son. And of course he’s interesting, brilliant and talented.

]]> By: Altheap31 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-29867 Altheap31 Fri, 17 Sep 2010 20:16:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-29867 Over the yrs my husband and I have both grown together. We have been married for 24 yrs and I love him for a list reasons that would be rather lengthy but he is an inspiration to anyone he comes in contact with. He inspires and encourages others to be their best in whatever their talents and gifting may be. Over the yrs my husband and I have both grown together. We have been married for 24 yrs and I love him for a list reasons that would be rather lengthy but he is an inspiration to anyone he comes in contact with. He inspires and encourages others to be their best in whatever their talents and gifting may be.

]]> By: joe http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-18052 joe Fri, 02 Oct 2009 06:22:04 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-18052 im crazy and shes okay with it! im crazy and shes okay with it!

]]> By: Lamar http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-14646 Lamar Tue, 09 Jun 2009 21:38:25 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-14646 @Deveter- Wow, great comment. <abbr><em>Lamars last blog post..<a href="http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/06/09/travel-tuesday-family-fun-getaway-the-lansdowne-resort-in-va/" rel="nofollow">Travel Tuesday: Family Fun Getaway @ the Lansdowne Resort in VA!!!</a></abbr></em> @Deveter- Wow, great comment.

Lamars last blog post..Travel Tuesday: Family Fun Getaway @ the Lansdowne Resort in VA!!!

]]> By: Deveter http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-14642 Deveter Tue, 09 Jun 2009 20:04:32 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-14642 he is a caring hands on father, because he is my best friend and first true love. because he gets ME and loves me for who I am. I Live Overjoyed & Victorious Everyday because of him! he is a caring hands on father, because he is my best friend and first true love. because he gets ME and loves me for who I am. I Live Overjoyed & Victorious Everyday because of him!

]]> By: A Gangstas Girl http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-8318 A Gangstas Girl Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:00:43 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-8318 He is my friend, lover, protector and provider. He never takes me for granted. He always lets me know that i'm appreciated whether it's with words or his actions. He is an EXCELLENT father and most of all because he TRULY and GENUINELY loves me. He is my friend, lover, protector and provider. He never takes me for granted. He always lets me know that i’m appreciated whether it’s with words or his actions. He is an EXCELLENT father and most of all because he TRULY and GENUINELY loves me.

]]> By: Harriet http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2008/10/29/i-love-my-spouse-because/comment-page-1#comment-6954 Harriet Fri, 05 Dec 2008 18:25:40 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=1675#comment-6954 He loves the Lord more than he loves me, which means he can love me the way the Lord loves me: unconditionally. Additionally, because he loves the Lord so much, I don't ever have to worry about him doing something outside the will of the Lord (adultery, abuse, etc). Also because he is not a punk. We're both very strong willed and I never wanted to marry anyone that could not lead me effectively. He loves the Lord more than he loves me, which means he can love me the way the Lord loves me: unconditionally.

Additionally, because he loves the Lord so much, I don’t ever have to worry about him doing something outside the will of the Lord (adultery, abuse, etc).

Also because he is not a punk. We’re both very strong willed and I never wanted to marry anyone that could not lead me effectively.

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