Jonesi’s Journey – Location, Location, Location
It’s been a little over two months since that special day and I can see why some people choose to elope. Not that I’m seriously considering that as an option, but planning a wedding is no small feat. But it’s a blessing so I won’t complain.
I previously shared we would be getting married late October 09 and I knew in order to secure the venue we both loved, I had to reserve it ASAP….and I did! Below are pictures:
I will say this wasn’t the room we originally booked. Most facilities seem to have spending minimums, so initially we reserved a beautiful, yet modest room that was more within our budget. Well thanks to the economy, the venue had to readjust their prices and we, well I (lol), was able to switch to the “fairy tale” room of my dreams at about the same cost! Though we both preferred an evening wedding and reception, we opted for the afternoon rate which was almost half the cost. I know the pictures scream expensive but after factoring in everything it includes, it’s worth every penny! I would suggest choosing a one-stop venue that takes care of it ALL if possible.
For under $30 a person, here is what we get (I’m copying the brochure):
* Complimentary Wedding Specialist
* Executive Chef and Food
- - Two Entrees (Ham, Turkey, Chicken or Beef)
- - Signature House Salad
- - Warm Breads and Flavored Butters
- - Two Seasonal Vegetables
- - One Side Entree
* Champagne, Beer and Wine (unlimited)
* Passed Red and White Wine (as guest arrive)
* Non-Alcoholic Beverages (unlimited Tea, Coffee, Juice and Soda)
* International Cheese Display (garnished with Red Grapes)
* Champagne Toast (poured to each guest)
* Choice of Centerpieces
* Cake Cutting and Plating
* Professional Staff (including bartenders, servers, and hostesses)
* Use of Fine Linens (napkins, floor length tablecloths with white overlays and skirting)
* Complimentary White Chair covers
* Room Set-up and Clean-up
** If we choose, through “The Knot” we received a coupon for a half-price open bar which will cost us an additional $3 per person for house brands.
I went through all that for those who are currently planning weddings and wanted you to see that you can get a bang for your buck if you find the right place. Most venues find a way to charge for all the little incidentals and if you’re not careful, those hidden cost will blow your budget. At the end of the day they want your money and you want to make the most of what you have. Don’t be afraid to negotiate prices and bargain hunt. Give yourself enough time to plan and try your best to have fun with it.
Also, below is a picture of The Loft in the same facility where we are considering holding the ceremony. Everything you see in the room is standard except the alter pieces and aisle runner.
This is where the issues begin. Our church is rebuilding about forty minutes away from the reception site, and though my preference is to marry in a church, I fear the distance may be a bit too much. Honestly, if I can’t marry in my own church, then I rather choose a place that’s most convenient. Even though the reception hall is pretty big, I kind of liked the idea of the ceremony being more intimate. My mother suggested I find a church that is closer but I struggle with whether it’s worth it.
BMWK Family – Do you feel wedding ceremonies should only be held within a church? If not, why? If married, where did your ceremony take place and if you could go back to that moment, would you change anything?
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