Comments on: Should Women Say “I Love You First”? http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first Promoting Positive Images of Marriage and Parenting Since 2007 Sun, 12 Feb 2012 21:09:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ptconsulting http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first/comment-page-1#comment-47424 Ptconsulting Sat, 05 Nov 2011 22:13:00 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=2686#comment-47424 Some men can not take the I love you'' they run like hell! Some men can not take the I love you” they run like hell!

]]> By: Constance http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first/comment-page-1#comment-9231 Constance Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:34:02 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=2686#comment-9231 I don't see the harm in women saying "I love you" first. If the guy explains that he wants to remain in a relationship, but he's just not there yet, then the woman needs to just cool her heels and wrap her head around the fact that the guy will probably get there one day, just not that day. lol But then again if the guy says that he doesn't really see the relationship heading down that path, then it's time for the woman to cut her losses and move around. I've never told a guy I loved them first, but I've definitely tried to subtly express my feelings without definitively saying the 3 words. The 1st time, it was met with a "oh you're cool too" type of response. And the 2nd time, it was met with the same kind of subtle "I love you". I guess he was scared to say it too. lol I don’t see the harm in women saying “I love you” first. If the guy explains that he wants to remain in a relationship, but he’s just not there yet, then the woman needs to just cool her heels and wrap her head around the fact that the guy will probably get there one day, just not that day. lol But then again if the guy says that he doesn’t really see the relationship heading down that path, then it’s time for the woman to cut her losses and move around.

I’ve never told a guy I loved them first, but I’ve definitely tried to subtly express my feelings without definitively saying the 3 words. The 1st time, it was met with a “oh you’re cool too” type of response. And the 2nd time, it was met with the same kind of subtle “I love you”. I guess he was scared to say it too. lol

]]> By: Anna http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first/comment-page-1#comment-9223 Anna Thu, 08 Jan 2009 03:34:44 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=2686#comment-9223 Daisy said: I have never told a man I love them still w8n on that day. ~~~~~~~~~ Not necessarily a bad thing Daisy, some ppl say it to so many different ppl of the opposite sex it makes me sick. Everyone has a female friend that is in love with a new man every other month. To me that just shows that some ppl really don't know what love is. Some ppl go looking for love, I believe it will find you. Some ppl are also to picky and see one flaw in a man and keep it moving not knowing that was the one "GOD" sent them. If you can't commit to a relationship because you think someone is beneath you because you only see their job title or the car they are driving that is shallow. If I waited for hubby to get a decent car before marrying him we would have got married last October vs 11 1/2 yrs ago. LOL. Daisy, there is nothing more special than being in love and telling the one you love that you love them and not only being able to hear those words come from his lips but the feeling within that I get in hearing it knowing this is the truth, is amazing. I wish new things for in you 2009. Daisy are you also from SR.com? Daisy said:
I have never told a man I love them still w8n on that day.
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Not necessarily a bad thing Daisy, some ppl say it to so many different ppl of the opposite sex it makes me sick. Everyone has a female friend that is in love with a new man every other month. To me that just shows that some ppl really don’t know what love is. Some ppl go looking for love, I believe it will find you. Some ppl are also to picky and see one flaw in a man and keep it moving not knowing that was the one “GOD” sent them. If you can’t commit to a relationship because you think someone is beneath you because you only see their job title or the car they are driving that is shallow. If I waited for hubby to get a decent car before marrying him we would have got married last October vs 11 1/2 yrs ago. LOL.
Daisy, there is nothing more special than being in love and telling the one you love that you love them and not only being able to hear those words come from his lips but the feeling within that I get in hearing it knowing this is the truth, is amazing. I wish new things for in you 2009. Daisy are you also from SR.com?

]]> By: Daisy http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first/comment-page-1#comment-9205 Daisy Thu, 08 Jan 2009 01:42:03 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=2686#comment-9205 I have never told a man I love them still w8n on that day. I have never told a man I love them still w8n on that day.

]]> By: TheMom http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/05/should-women-say-i-love-you-first/comment-page-1#comment-8995 TheMom Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:14:29 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=2686#comment-8995 @TheDad...I told you "I love you" first and you just melted in my arms :-) Seriously, I kind of agree with Wendy. However, if it has been a long time and you know you love this man and you want to know if he feels the same...then I suggest putting it all out there so that you can determine if it is worth investing even more time in the relationship. <abbr><em>TheMoms last blog post..<a href="http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/01/01/pigskin-loving-lady-presents-nfl-playoffs-wild-card-weekend-preview/" rel="nofollow">Pigskin Loving Lady Presents: NFL Playoffs- Wild Card Weekend Preview</a></abbr></em> @TheDad…I told you “I love you” first and you just melted in my arms :-)

Seriously, I kind of agree with Wendy. However, if it has been a long time and you know you love this man and you want to know if he feels the same…then I suggest putting it all out there so that you can determine if it is worth investing even more time in the relationship.

TheMoms last blog post..Pigskin Loving Lady Presents: NFL Playoffs- Wild Card Weekend Preview

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