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	<title>Comments on: Having a Relationship Plan: Pregnancy</title>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11220</link>
		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 21:33:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The wife in the movie was wrong, but it takes two to get pregnant and I think that if you don&#039;t want kids that both should take precautions .  Never let a decision like that be made for you by not protecting your own body, that goes for men and women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The wife in the movie was wrong, but it takes two to get pregnant and I think that if you don&#8217;t want kids that both should take precautions .  Never let a decision like that be made for you by not protecting your own body, that goes for men and women.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonesi</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11175</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonesi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 17:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha...I have more to say off record about this...I will hit you up on FB :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha&#8230;I have more to say off record about this&#8230;I will hit you up on FB <img src='http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tara Pringle Jefferson</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11170</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara Pringle Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jonsei - Yeah, we had used that &quot;method&quot; for about 11 months successfully before we had baby #1. Had baby #2 after using it successfully for another 11 months. Something about my body won&#039;t let us outsmart it for an entire year. LOL. I know my eggs were like, &quot;Who do they think they are? We&#039;ll get &#039;em next time....&quot; I didn&#039;t even ATTEMPT to go with that method after baby #2. I waited my six weeks, got the IUD inserted, and then waited an ADDITIONAL month just to make sure that sucker was working. LOL. I told you, times are rough and layoffs have hit my uterus too...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/20/from-the-mailbag-money-tips-from-the-masses/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;From the mailbag: Money tips from the masses&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Jonsei &#8211; Yeah, we had used that &#8220;method&#8221; for about 11 months successfully before we had baby #1. Had baby #2 after using it successfully for another 11 months. Something about my body won&#8217;t let us outsmart it for an entire year. LOL. I know my eggs were like, &#8220;Who do they think they are? We&#8217;ll get &#8216;em next time&#8230;.&#8221; I didn&#8217;t even ATTEMPT to go with that method after baby #2. I waited my six weeks, got the IUD inserted, and then waited an ADDITIONAL month just to make sure that sucker was working. LOL. I told you, times are rough and layoffs have hit my uterus too&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..<a href="http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/20/from-the-mailbag-money-tips-from-the-masses/" rel="nofollow">From the mailbag: Money tips from the masses</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jonesi</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11168</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonesi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hate to be graphic but I&#039;m with Harriet&#039;s method...lmao...and watch as soon as I get married it will no longer work :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hate to be graphic but I&#8217;m with Harriet&#8217;s method&#8230;lmao&#8230;and watch as soon as I get married it will no longer work <img src='http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: MissJay</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11166</link>
		<dc:creator>MissJay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah that egg factory liquidation sale analogy was funny!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah that egg factory liquidation sale analogy was funny!!</p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11155</link>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 14:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>by the way, ROFL at the egg factory shutting down.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by the way, ROFL at the egg factory shutting down.</p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11154</link>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 14:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sounds like a plan, tara

i&#039;ll shoot an e-mail from that message you sent updating your blog with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sounds like a plan, tara</p>
<p>i&#8217;ll shoot an e-mail from that message you sent updating your blog with us.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara Pringle Jefferson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara Pringle Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 13:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Harriet - Ooooh, I&#039;m happy for you guys working on #2! How fun! Your younest is 3 now, right? Sounds like a perfect time. 

Yeah, I heard the horror stories too, but there&#039;s horror stories for every type of birth control so you just gotta jump in and cross your fingers. Because there is NO WAY I&#039;m having any more babies. Did the whole two kids in two years thing and I&#039;m out! Shutting down the factory, all my eggs have been laid off - EVERYTHING MUST GO! lol. 

I really must talk to you outside of BMWK sometime. You seem like really cool people!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/19/day-4-making-cents-for-you-the-dollar-store-is-your-friend/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Day #4 - Making Cents for You - The dollar store is your friend&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Harriet &#8211; Ooooh, I&#8217;m happy for you guys working on #2! How fun! Your younest is 3 now, right? Sounds like a perfect time. </p>
<p>Yeah, I heard the horror stories too, but there&#8217;s horror stories for every type of birth control so you just gotta jump in and cross your fingers. Because there is NO WAY I&#8217;m having any more babies. Did the whole two kids in two years thing and I&#8217;m out! Shutting down the factory, all my eggs have been laid off &#8211; EVERYTHING MUST GO! lol. </p>
<p>I really must talk to you outside of BMWK sometime. You seem like really cool people!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..<a href="http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/19/day-4-making-cents-for-you-the-dollar-store-is-your-friend/" rel="nofollow">Day #4 &#8211; Making Cents for You &#8211; The dollar store is your friend</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11137</link>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 03:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the loving is not a problem...and right about now, we want baby #2 to come along.  after having her (or him), i&#039;ll consider the new iud as opposed to tubal ligation...i just don&#039;t know about the long term effects. heard too many horror stories to be completely comfortable with it. 

i&#039;m glad it works for you, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the loving is not a problem&#8230;and right about now, we want baby #2 to come along.  after having her (or him), i&#8217;ll consider the new iud as opposed to tubal ligation&#8230;i just don&#8217;t know about the long term effects. heard too many horror stories to be completely comfortable with it. </p>
<p>i&#8217;m glad it works for you, though.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara Pringle Jefferson</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/02/19/having-a-relationship-plan-pregnancy/comment-page-1#comment-11134</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara Pringle Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 01:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Harriet - The pull-out method? Let me introduce you to Baby #1 and #2 over here! LOL. But seriously, I know you said your body doesn&#039;t respond well to birth control, but I got the new IUD and I LOVE IT. Nothing to worry about, the insertion&#039;s easy and it lasts for five years. I know I sound like the lady in the commercial, but the lovin&#039; is sooo much better when you don&#039;t worry about getting pregnant.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/19/day-4-making-cents-for-you-the-dollar-store-is-your-friend/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Day #4 - Making Cents for You - The dollar store is your friend&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Harriet &#8211; The pull-out method? Let me introduce you to Baby #1 and #2 over here! LOL. But seriously, I know you said your body doesn&#8217;t respond well to birth control, but I got the new IUD and I LOVE IT. Nothing to worry about, the insertion&#8217;s easy and it lasts for five years. I know I sound like the lady in the commercial, but the lovin&#8217; is sooo much better when you don&#8217;t worry about getting pregnant.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..<a href="http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/02/19/day-4-making-cents-for-you-the-dollar-store-is-your-friend/" rel="nofollow">Day #4 &#8211; Making Cents for You &#8211; The dollar store is your friend</a></em></abbr></p>
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