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		<title>By: Cory Calimee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cory Calimee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 16:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, took me a while to write this but after reading a few blogs..I&#039;m in a peculiar situation myself. I have 2 kids by a women(daughter is 11 and son is 8) that I&#039;m no longer with. I&#039;m married to a women whose 14 years older than me. I&#039;m unhappy, my wife has no ambition to want do anything else, and I&#039;ve been bored for a few years now. My marriage is FLAT OUT boring and STALE!! However, my kids stay about a 10 minute drive away from me. I visit them about 3 to 4 days a week. Me and my kids mother are hella cool. I don&#039;t know if she has a boyfriend or a &quot;special friend&quot; in her life because she doesn&#039;t talk about him nor have I seen him. She&#039;s hella busy with school full time (5 days a week) and she works 12 hrs a day on the weekends. Me and my kids mother have had our &quot;rough patches&quot;in the past but now we seem to understand that we HAVE to be GREAT PARENTS to our children regardless of our past  issues. We get along awesome like were best friends. Lately we&#039;ve been talking alot via text messages and when I visit the kids. Sometimes, I buy her dinner from my job or somewhere when shes hungry because she dont be having enough food to feed her and the other kids(3 from a previous relationship; she only had one when we met; had 1after my daughter; and 1 after my son) We haven&#039;t had sex since she was pregnant with my son(yeah that long!!). I give her a hug and kiss on the cheek when I see her(whether that&#039;s somewhere in the streets or when I go her house). I do love her and I&#039;ve watched her over the years with other guys not treating her right and so on. I broke it off with her because at that particular time I was in the &quot;streets&quot;(mentally and physically; not ready for my responsibilities).Lately she&#039;s always texting me, telling me to come over because she tired of yelling at the kids,my daughter doing this and my son doing that. Which I don&#039;t mind because thats what I&#039;m supposed to do as a father. I try my hardest to be in my kids life...whether thats calling them, taking them somewhere, reviewing their homework or staying there till they go to sleep.When I&#039;m over there we all talk like we&#039;re one happy family..it&#039;s so weird(her other kids call me daddy). Today she asked me to spend a few nights there a week because my daughter and son is being a &quot;pain in the azz.&quot; I don&#039;t know if that means she wants to work it out or if that means,&quot;You can stay here a few days a week...and lets see what happens.&quot; My only problem with this is lately I&#039;ve been asking myself,  &quot;Why didn&#039;t I marry my kids mother??&quot;...&quot;Why aren&#039;t you trying to work things out with your kids mother so you can be a REAL FAMILY??&quot;..&quot;Your daughter is pre-teen, shouldn&#039;t I be there everyday for her?&quot; I guess you can ask me the question: Why did I marry this older lady?? Honestly, I ask myself the same thing. I&#039;m bored outta my mind. My kids bring me joy(headaches and all).Me and the wifey don&#039;t have any assets together. No car, house, bank account, nothing. Just our name on a sheet of paper. My family likes my wife but they think shes a bit &quot;slow&quot; mentally. This is tough.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, took me a while to write this but after reading a few blogs..I&#8217;m in a peculiar situation myself. I have 2 kids by a women(daughter is 11 and son is <img src='http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> that I&#8217;m no longer with. I&#8217;m married to a women whose 14 years older than me. I&#8217;m unhappy, my wife has no ambition to want do anything else, and I&#8217;ve been bored for a few years now. My marriage is FLAT OUT boring and STALE!! However, my kids stay about a 10 minute drive away from me. I visit them about 3 to 4 days a week. Me and my kids mother are hella cool. I don&#8217;t know if she has a boyfriend or a &#8220;special friend&#8221; in her life because she doesn&#8217;t talk about him nor have I seen him. She&#8217;s hella busy with school full time (5 days a week) and she works 12 hrs a day on the weekends. Me and my kids mother have had our &#8220;rough patches&#8221;in the past but now we seem to understand that we HAVE to be GREAT PARENTS to our children regardless of our past  issues. We get along awesome like were best friends. Lately we&#8217;ve been talking alot via text messages and when I visit the kids. Sometimes, I buy her dinner from my job or somewhere when shes hungry because she dont be having enough food to feed her and the other kids(3 from a previous relationship; she only had one when we met; had 1after my daughter; and 1 after my son) We haven&#8217;t had sex since she was pregnant with my son(yeah that long!!). I give her a hug and kiss on the cheek when I see her(whether that&#8217;s somewhere in the streets or when I go her house). I do love her and I&#8217;ve watched her over the years with other guys not treating her right and so on. I broke it off with her because at that particular time I was in the &#8220;streets&#8221;(mentally and physically; not ready for my responsibilities).Lately she&#8217;s always texting me, telling me to come over because she tired of yelling at the kids,my daughter doing this and my son doing that. Which I don&#8217;t mind because thats what I&#8217;m supposed to do as a father. I try my hardest to be in my kids life&#8230;whether thats calling them, taking them somewhere, reviewing their homework or staying there till they go to sleep.When I&#8217;m over there we all talk like we&#8217;re one happy family..it&#8217;s so weird(her other kids call me daddy). Today she asked me to spend a few nights there a week because my daughter and son is being a &#8220;pain in the azz.&#8221; I don&#8217;t know if that means she wants to work it out or if that means,&#8221;You can stay here a few days a week&#8230;and lets see what happens.&#8221; My only problem with this is lately I&#8217;ve been asking myself,  &#8221;Why didn&#8217;t I marry my kids mother??&#8221;&#8230;&#8221;Why aren&#8217;t you trying to work things out with your kids mother so you can be a REAL FAMILY??&#8221;..&#8221;Your daughter is pre-teen, shouldn&#8217;t I be there everyday for her?&#8221; I guess you can ask me the question: Why did I marry this older lady?? Honestly, I ask myself the same thing. I&#8217;m bored outta my mind. My kids bring me joy(headaches and all).Me and the wifey don&#8217;t have any assets together. No car, house, bank account, nothing. Just our name on a sheet of paper. My family likes my wife but they think shes a bit &#8220;slow&#8221; mentally. This is tough&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: Mckoyteisha</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 16:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Kristina Tramel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristina Tramel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 03:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glad my husband isn&#039;t one of those &quot;most men&quot;. 

Never had any &quot;drama&quot; and only have one child...not 2-3 with several different fathers. 

My husband and I we&#039;re friends for 8 years.. dated for 2 of those years before we got married. So he spend a lot of time with my son and I together. No one forced him to marry me. He made that choice himself.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad my husband isn&#8217;t one of those &#8220;most men&#8221;. </p>
<p>Never had any &#8220;drama&#8221; and only have one child&#8230;not 2-3 with several different fathers. </p>
<p>My husband and I we&#8217;re friends for 8 years.. dated for 2 of those years before we got married. So he spend a lot of time with my son and I together. No one forced him to marry me. He made that choice himself.</p>
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		<title>By: Moni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Moni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 00:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My situation is the opposite I&#039;m a 41year old  divorced Women with 3 adult children 26,22,18 my 18 year lives at home and goes to college fulltime and works parttime and all the men I meet have young children and I dont want to date them when I meet them they don&#039;t mention their children until I ask then I&#039;m told they that they have 2 year old twins 6 year olds and 5 year olds and these men are 42,43,and 55 I dont want to spend my weekends with little kids been there done that and no I don&#039;t have grandkids so this is my time not kid time need someone with adult kids like me </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My situation is the opposite I&#8217;m a 41year old  divorced Women with 3 adult children 26,22,18 my 18 year lives at home and goes to college fulltime and works parttime and all the men I meet have young children and I dont want to date them when I meet them they don&#8217;t mention their children until I ask then I&#8217;m told they that they have 2 year old twins 6 year olds and 5 year olds and these men are 42,43,and 55 I dont want to spend my weekends with little kids been there done that and no I don&#8217;t have grandkids so this is my time not kid time need someone with adult kids like me </p>
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		<title>By: Web Dating</title>
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		<dc:creator>Web Dating</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 18:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most single men don&#039;t want a &quot;ready-made&quot; family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most single men don&#8217;t want a &#8220;ready-made&#8221; family.</p>
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		<title>By: Web Dating</title>
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		<dc:creator>Web Dating</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 18:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most single men don&#039;t want a &quot;ready-made&quot; family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most single men don&#8217;t want a &#8220;ready-made&#8221; family.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 19:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: MRS.Emerson</title>
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		<dc:creator>MRS.Emerson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 19:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Money talks, sounds kind of bitter and prejudice towards single women. No one has the right to judge anyone situation ands= everyone deserves love. I have not met one person without flaw! This was a wonderful article!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Money talks, sounds kind of bitter and prejudice towards single women. No one has the right to judge anyone situation ands= everyone deserves love. I have not met one person without flaw! This was a wonderful article!</p>
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