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		<title>By: Home Theater Power Conditioner</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/03/26/a-mans-job/comment-page-1#comment-26622</link>
		<dc:creator>Home Theater Power Conditioner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 05:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am pleased I discovered this blog, I couldnt discover any info on this topic matter earlier to. I also operate a website and if you would like to ever serious in a little bit of guest writing for me if possible feel free of charge to allow me know, i&#039;m always appear for individuals to take a look at my website. Please stop by and leave a comment sometime!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am pleased I discovered this blog, I couldnt discover any info on this topic matter earlier to. I also operate a website and if you would like to ever serious in a little bit of guest writing for me if possible feel free of charge to allow me know, i&#8217;m always appear for individuals to take a look at my website. Please stop by and leave a comment sometime!</p>
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		<title>By: william</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/03/26/a-mans-job/comment-page-1#comment-25749</link>
		<dc:creator>william</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 16:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes i dont mind doing the cooking getting kids ready for school,taking out trash but if i&#039;m to sick or to tierd i will look at my wife or children to help out also and if they respect me they will help out and i reward them and thank them for thier time it should be a give and take thing everyone should help out in there own way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes i dont mind doing the cooking getting kids ready for school,taking out trash but if i&#8217;m to sick or to tierd i will look at my wife or children to help out also and if they respect me they will help out and i reward them and thank them for thier time it should be a give and take thing everyone should help out in there own way.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara Pringle Jefferson</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/03/26/a-mans-job/comment-page-1#comment-12677</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara Pringle Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 12:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Apparently, no one caught the humor in the article! I guess it can&#039;t be so subtle! LOL.

@L. Gettis - I know I CAN get it done and I WILL get it done, but I was trying to make a larger point about whether or not it&#039;s common to expect one person to handle certain responsibilities. I know it only takes a few minutes. Not the point. The point is that he usually handles these things and having to do it myself requires me to change my schedule around a bit. That&#039;s all. Not the end of the world.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/03/30/share-your-breastfeeding-horror-story/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Share your breastfeeding horror story&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apparently, no one caught the humor in the article! I guess it can&#8217;t be so subtle! LOL.</p>
<p>@L. Gettis &#8211; I know I CAN get it done and I WILL get it done, but I was trying to make a larger point about whether or not it&#8217;s common to expect one person to handle certain responsibilities. I know it only takes a few minutes. Not the point. The point is that he usually handles these things and having to do it myself requires me to change my schedule around a bit. That&#8217;s all. Not the end of the world.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..<a href="http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/03/30/share-your-breastfeeding-horror-story/" rel="nofollow">Share your breastfeeding horror story</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: L. Gettis</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/03/26/a-mans-job/comment-page-1#comment-12673</link>
		<dc:creator>L. Gettis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 06:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awe come on! It takes less than 30 minutes to have your oil changed. I do it? Its no big deal. You better hurry, you don&#039;t want your car engine to lock up on you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awe come on! It takes less than 30 minutes to have your oil changed. I do it? Its no big deal. You better hurry, you don&#8217;t want your car engine to lock up on you?</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 01:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A chore is a chore is a chore.  If the garbage needs to be taken out, do it, if the dishes need washed, wash them.   If the oil needs changed in my cars I go to Vavoline.  My kids just took one of my cars to the &quot;do it yourself car wash&quot;.  My hubby will change a flat on my car, he has only changed the oil in my car once.  I buy the &quot;entertainment coupon book&quot; and we have coupons for free oil changes, resturant coupons, comedy club and tire rotaion.  FYI, I buy the book for all the free stuff mid year and it&#039;s half price.  On a real note we do have to let a man be a man and a woman be a woman but in todays times there are not gender &quot;chore&quot; roles.  I am going to go &quot;country white&quot; and say , get her done&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A chore is a chore is a chore.  If the garbage needs to be taken out, do it, if the dishes need washed, wash them.   If the oil needs changed in my cars I go to Vavoline.  My kids just took one of my cars to the &#8220;do it yourself car wash&#8221;.  My hubby will change a flat on my car, he has only changed the oil in my car once.  I buy the &#8220;entertainment coupon book&#8221; and we have coupons for free oil changes, resturant coupons, comedy club and tire rotaion.  FYI, I buy the book for all the free stuff mid year and it&#8217;s half price.  On a real note we do have to let a man be a man and a woman be a woman but in todays times there are not gender &#8220;chore&#8221; roles.  I am going to go &#8220;country white&#8221; and say , get her done&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Rock City Roots</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rock City Roots</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 19:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I rollin with MissJay......In our home we do what is needed. Whoever, gets to it first gets it done. Most of the time I clean and do the laundry and my wife would take the car for maintence(but she worked for the car dealer. She cook mostly but I sometimes get my hand in mix. I can cook mac and cheese.My wife cuts the boys hair including me. My point shared responsibility. Like MissJay expressed you may be in a situation where you have to do it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I rollin with MissJay&#8230;&#8230;In our home we do what is needed. Whoever, gets to it first gets it done. Most of the time I clean and do the laundry and my wife would take the car for maintence(but she worked for the car dealer. She cook mostly but I sometimes get my hand in mix. I can cook mac and cheese.My wife cuts the boys hair including me. My point shared responsibility. Like MissJay expressed you may be in a situation where you have to do it.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara Pringle Jefferson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara Pringle Jefferson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 17:12:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I definitely know how to do almost everything in and around the house. I think it might be because of the way I was brought up. My dad would go out and brush the snow off my car and start it for me when I was in high school. He always put gas in my car and he took the trash out and...well, I was spoiled. And he would always do those things for my mom as well. So when I got married, I brought those assumptions to my marriage as well. 

@CLM - That&#039;s what I&#039;m talking about! Let a man be a man! LOL.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/03/26/and-the-winner-is/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;And the winner is….&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I definitely know how to do almost everything in and around the house. I think it might be because of the way I was brought up. My dad would go out and brush the snow off my car and start it for me when I was in high school. He always put gas in my car and he took the trash out and&#8230;well, I was spoiled. And he would always do those things for my mom as well. So when I got married, I brought those assumptions to my marriage as well. </p>
<p>@CLM &#8211; That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m talking about! Let a man be a man! LOL.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tara Pringle Jeffersons last blog post..<a href="http://theyoungmommylife.com/2009/03/26/and-the-winner-is/" rel="nofollow">And the winner is….</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: CLM</title>
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		<dc:creator>CLM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 16:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Call me &quot;old school&quot;, but your hubby should be taking care of that, without you having to worry about it. I don&#039;t know your schedules, so that might be a LOT more difficult than it sounds.

Car stuff = the guy. Period.

Again, I think that is something he should lead on. &quot;Sweetheart, it&#039;s time for an oil change, so I&#039;ll be taking the car in on...&quot; That kind of thing.

Like I said, that works for me; I don&#039;t know your schedules or time pressures.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call me &#8220;old school&#8221;, but your hubby should be taking care of that, without you having to worry about it. I don&#8217;t know your schedules, so that might be a LOT more difficult than it sounds.</p>
<p>Car stuff = the guy. Period.</p>
<p>Again, I think that is something he should lead on. &#8220;Sweetheart, it&#8217;s time for an oil change, so I&#8217;ll be taking the car in on&#8230;&#8221; That kind of thing.</p>
<p>Like I said, that works for me; I don&#8217;t know your schedules or time pressures.</p>
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		<title>By: CartersMom</title>
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		<dc:creator>CartersMom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 15:32:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SMARTMOUTH, YOU ARE DEFINETELY A KEEPER. I&#039;M STILL WORKING ON MY HUSBAND TO PICK UP AFTER HIMSELF.  YA&#039;LL DON&#039;T WANT ME TO START TALKING ABOUT CHORES.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SMARTMOUTH, YOU ARE DEFINETELY A KEEPER. I&#8217;M STILL WORKING ON MY HUSBAND TO PICK UP AFTER HIMSELF.  YA&#8217;LL DON&#8217;T WANT ME TO START TALKING ABOUT CHORES.</p>
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		<title>By: Smart Mouth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Smart Mouth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 01:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am proactive while my better half is a procrastinator. My wife is a student so I do most of the cooking, cleaning, car maintenance, yard work, laundry and everything else with the exception of combing my girls hair and buying their clothes. I don&#039;t wait on my wife to do things around the house because I am very impatient. She knows how I am so I thinks she gets some personal enjoyment of coming home and being able to relax.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am proactive while my better half is a procrastinator. My wife is a student so I do most of the cooking, cleaning, car maintenance, yard work, laundry and everything else with the exception of combing my girls hair and buying their clothes. I don&#8217;t wait on my wife to do things around the house because I am very impatient. She knows how I am so I thinks she gets some personal enjoyment of coming home and being able to relax.</p>
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