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		<title>By: MyBrownSpotlight: BlackandMarriedWithKids.com</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-35625</link>
		<dc:creator>MyBrownSpotlight: BlackandMarriedWithKids.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 08:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] in between. Their story line-up is eclectic and ever-changing: You might find a post about how to get over an argument with your significant other, or a piece that asks you to consider what kind of marriage role model you are to your children, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] in between. Their story line-up is eclectic and ever-changing: You might find a post about how to get over an argument with your significant other, or a piece that asks you to consider what kind of marriage role model you are to your children, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Wanda</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13589</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms. Wanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, This is my year of doing the opposite of every situation I find myself getting into.  The kids, the teachers, some random horrible lady in the market:)  I&#039;m trying to change my behavior all the way around especially when dealing with the Husband! We are working on not being Mr. and Mrs. Pettybicker (see my post 2times in one day)and it&#039;s not easy.  Love makes change worth it and I love my husband:) 5 kids and a business that has been hit with a brick by the economy we keep going and we go together.  Losing house, cars, business and not Us or Our family is priceless:)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ms. Wandas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wandawrites.blogspot.com/2009/04/twins-crashed.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Twins Crashed!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, This is my year of doing the opposite of every situation I find myself getting into.  The kids, the teachers, some random horrible lady in the market:)  I&#8217;m trying to change my behavior all the way around especially when dealing with the Husband! We are working on not being Mr. and Mrs. Pettybicker (see my post 2times in one day)and it&#8217;s not easy.  Love makes change worth it and I love my husband:) 5 kids and a business that has been hit with a brick by the economy we keep going and we go together.  Losing house, cars, business and not Us or Our family is priceless:)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Ms. Wandas last blog post..<a href="http://wandawrites.blogspot.com/2009/04/twins-crashed.html" rel="nofollow">The Twins Crashed!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tiya</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13338</link>
		<dc:creator>Tiya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 00:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, this will actually work. There is that old popular saying, &quot;if you always do what you&#039;ve always done, you&#039;ll always get what you&#039;ve always got&quot;. I try  to keep this one in mind, because I know I get more bees with honey, I am often trying to  do what leads to peace. Trying a different approach definitely produces different results. Good post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, this will actually work. There is that old popular saying, &#8220;if you always do what you&#8217;ve always done, you&#8217;ll always get what you&#8217;ve always got&#8221;. I try  to keep this one in mind, because I know I get more bees with honey, I am often trying to  do what leads to peace. Trying a different approach definitely produces different results. Good post!</p>
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		<title>By: CARLTON PENN</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13337</link>
		<dc:creator>CARLTON PENN</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 23:59:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My wife and I somestimes need a break from our two busy kidswhich is difercult at times because we don&#039;t get alot of support from family or freinds but that stop us from caring and loving the children and each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife and I somestimes need a break from our two busy kidswhich is difercult at times because we don&#8217;t get alot of support from family or freinds but that stop us from caring and loving the children and each other.</p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Miko</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13324</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms. Miko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 17:45:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I know what will start the argument, and I know how to end it. My husband doesn&#039;t like to argue, and he usually thinks before he speaks. Me on the other hand NOT! and he is good at defusing the situation, I know how but I choose not to. I&#039;m going to work on it though. Promise.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ms. Mikos last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://msmikosplaceontheweb.blogspot.com/2009/04/tomorrow-is-chemo-day.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tomorrow is Chemo Day!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I know what will start the argument, and I know how to end it. My husband doesn&#8217;t like to argue, and he usually thinks before he speaks. Me on the other hand NOT! and he is good at defusing the situation, I know how but I choose not to. I&#8217;m going to work on it though. Promise.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Ms. Mikos last blog post..<a href="http://msmikosplaceontheweb.blogspot.com/2009/04/tomorrow-is-chemo-day.html" rel="nofollow">Tomorrow is Chemo Day!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13319</link>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:37:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I have tinkered my usual sarcasm-at-the-worst-possible-time during our arguments.  It has revolutionized our marriage.  LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I have tinkered my usual sarcasm-at-the-worst-possible-time during our arguments.  It has revolutionized our marriage.  LOL</p>
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		<title>By: King James</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/04/20/predictable/comment-page-1#comment-13317</link>
		<dc:creator>King James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What if, instead of tuning me out, my husband simply asked me to keep it down?

could be ground breaking

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;King Jamess last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://mrkingjames.blogspot.com/2009/04/taalam-acey-vs-lamar-hill-poetry-slam.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Taalam Acey vs Lamar Hill Poetry Slam&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if, instead of tuning me out, my husband simply asked me to keep it down?</p>
<p>could be ground breaking</p>
<p><abbr><em>King Jamess last blog post..<a href="http://mrkingjames.blogspot.com/2009/04/taalam-acey-vs-lamar-hill-poetry-slam.html" rel="nofollow">Taalam Acey vs Lamar Hill Poetry Slam</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 10:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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