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		<title>By: Poisontea4u</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/07/24/child-rape-story-almost-made-me-cuss/comment-page-1#comment-41482</link>
		<dc:creator>Poisontea4u</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 07:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A certain family needs to go back to Liberia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A certain family needs to go back to Liberia</p>
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		<title>By: Torrespando</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/07/24/child-rape-story-almost-made-me-cuss/comment-page-1#comment-28910</link>
		<dc:creator>Torrespando</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 12:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sad. thats a low down dirty shame how they do such a thing to a baby gurl she were so young How could men do that. Do they have a heart at all? No they don&#039;t and why is the mother getting arrested? was she in it as well. If i was only there I would hold that child in my arms tight. I cant believe they let that happen thats why sum people is not ready for kids as they thought. Its gonna get worse the world is getting bad every minute. I hope it made her strong and did not break her</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sad. thats a low down dirty shame how they do such a thing to a baby gurl she were so young How could men do that. Do they have a heart at all? No they don&#39;t and why is the mother getting arrested? was she in it as well. If i was only there I would hold that child in my arms tight. I cant believe they let that happen thats why sum people is not ready for kids as they thought. Its gonna get worse the world is getting bad every minute. I hope it made her strong and did not break her</p>
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		<title>By: Torrespando</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/07/24/child-rape-story-almost-made-me-cuss/comment-page-1#comment-28908</link>
		<dc:creator>Torrespando</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 12:34:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>where is this young lady at now? sorry it took  to long to reply.  who parents were they? what happen? That&#039;s sad how young girls has to trade just to get what they need knowing they can&#039;t get nothing in return all they have is them and their body is a big part of their life. I wanna know more</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>where is this young lady at now? sorry it took  to long to reply.  who parents were they? what happen? That&#39;s sad how young girls has to trade just to get what they need knowing they can&#39;t get nothing in return all they have is them and their body is a big part of their life. I wanna know more</p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:12:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, here&#039;s the link to the article:  http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/11/21/arizona.abuse.arrests/index.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, here&#8217;s the link to the article:  <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/11/21/arizona.abuse.arrests/index.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/11/21/arizona.abuse.arrests/index.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
		<link>http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/07/24/child-rape-story-almost-made-me-cuss/comment-page-1#comment-20392</link>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, I don&#039;t know how much more I can take.  This little girl&#039;s parents were arrested last week for child abuse!  a few snippets from the article:  

&quot;Police said the parents, refugees from the West African nation, used sticks, wires and their fists to hit their young daughter.&quot;

&quot;Witnesses told CNN affiliate KTVK that the parents left their daughter wandering their apartment complex alone at night, begging for food.&quot;

As if this young lady has not been through enough. Lord, have mercy!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I don&#8217;t know how much more I can take.  This little girl&#8217;s parents were arrested last week for child abuse!  a few snippets from the article:  </p>
<p>&#8220;Police said the parents, refugees from the West African nation, used sticks, wires and their fists to hit their young daughter.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Witnesses told CNN affiliate KTVK that the parents left their daughter wandering their apartment complex alone at night, begging for food.&#8221;</p>
<p>As if this young lady has not been through enough. Lord, have mercy!</p>
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		<title>By: Brittanee MAnous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brittanee MAnous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 04:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well what i&#039;ll tell her it&#039;s not her fult she didn&#039;t know and i know she was really scared and when fear takes over it&#039;s harder to think fast you have to be calm and that i will do whatever it takes to help her over come this and so god help me i will go out my way to woop thier asses for rapeing her and i would tell them honesty i would want to know why and tell them from right to wrong and have them to apologize to her and have the boys relased they shouldn&#039;t be charge at that young age and i would never blame her.they kids their minds wonder! their mind wonder so far it can cross the line and when they made up thier mind they want to try it  i dont blame the boys ither all guys wanna see what&#039;s it&#039;s like to have sex but they was just having fun but in the wrong way</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well what i&#8217;ll tell her it&#8217;s not her fult she didn&#8217;t know and i know she was really scared and when fear takes over it&#8217;s harder to think fast you have to be calm and that i will do whatever it takes to help her over come this and so god help me i will go out my way to woop thier asses for rapeing her and i would tell them honesty i would want to know why and tell them from right to wrong and have them to apologize to her and have the boys relased they shouldn&#8217;t be charge at that young age and i would never blame her.they kids their minds wonder! their mind wonder so far it can cross the line and when they made up thier mind they want to try it  i dont blame the boys ither all guys wanna see what&#8217;s it&#8217;s like to have sex but they was just having fun but in the wrong way</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 12:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a mother of a 10 year old girl, and a victim of child rape myself, this story breaks my heart. It also brings back stuff I thought I let go years ago. As a child who was blamed for my assault, I spent years trying to prove to my parents that I was worthy. For years the last thing that went through my mind before I went to sleep, I was a Whore (my mothers words). and knowing I was going to be teased the next day, because of the new  &quot;granny&quot; clothes I had to wear, So I would not have any reason to flirt.

I hope social services gets her the help she needs, for the rape and the rejection from her family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a mother of a 10 year old girl, and a victim of child rape myself, this story breaks my heart. It also brings back stuff I thought I let go years ago. As a child who was blamed for my assault, I spent years trying to prove to my parents that I was worthy. For years the last thing that went through my mind before I went to sleep, I was a Whore (my mothers words). and knowing I was going to be teased the next day, because of the new  &#8220;granny&#8221; clothes I had to wear, So I would not have any reason to flirt.</p>
<p>I hope social services gets her the help she needs, for the rape and the rejection from her family.</p>
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		<title>By: athenanike</title>
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		<dc:creator>athenanike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 03:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I won&#039;t back track on my previous comments but ammend them by saying the family response is generally attributed to the muslim culture. If rape is &quot;cultural norm&quot;, then why has the little girl separated from her parents for her own protection?  
In general Africa as a continent has a staggering rape statistics, due to the wars, famines, and AIDS. The BBC did a report, 1/4 men in South Africa alone had raped a girl or woman by the time they were 20, as a way of male bonding or to express their masculinity, because in some parts of Africa men will rape young boys. It was also believed for a while that having sex with a virgin would cure a man of HIV/AIDS - which is where a lot of the infant rapes Harriet mentioned come in cause they are the only sure fire virgins left if everyone else is being raped.
I don&#039;t think its merely a patriarchal issue, but also colonialism remnants, plus the current socio-political situations in many countries.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I won&#8217;t back track on my previous comments but ammend them by saying the family response is generally attributed to the muslim culture. If rape is &#8220;cultural norm&#8221;, then why has the little girl separated from her parents for her own protection?<br />
In general Africa as a continent has a staggering rape statistics, due to the wars, famines, and AIDS. The BBC did a report, 1/4 men in South Africa alone had raped a girl or woman by the time they were 20, as a way of male bonding or to express their masculinity, because in some parts of Africa men will rape young boys. It was also believed for a while that having sex with a virgin would cure a man of HIV/AIDS &#8211; which is where a lot of the infant rapes Harriet mentioned come in cause they are the only sure fire virgins left if everyone else is being raped.<br />
I don&#8217;t think its merely a patriarchal issue, but also colonialism remnants, plus the current socio-political situations in many countries.</p>
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		<title>By: Buddma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Buddma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand, I am just getting a little tired of all the comments about them being Muslim, or confused, etc.  All countries have differing levels of a &quot;rape culture&quot;, it is not endemic to any particular country or group of people.  It is a holdover of the patriachial nature of most societies that allows such a culture to flourish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand, I am just getting a little tired of all the comments about them being Muslim, or confused, etc.  All countries have differing levels of a &#8220;rape culture&#8221;, it is not endemic to any particular country or group of people.  It is a holdover of the patriachial nature of most societies that allows such a culture to flourish.</p>
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		<title>By: Harriet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Buddma,

I meant amongst family members...but I can&#039;t even argue with you, unfortunately.  It happens everywhere.  I just can&#039;t imagine being 8 years old and not having the support of my family to lean on.  It baffles me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Buddma,</p>
<p>I meant amongst family members&#8230;but I can&#8217;t even argue with you, unfortunately.  It happens everywhere.  I just can&#8217;t imagine being 8 years old and not having the support of my family to lean on.  It baffles me.</p>
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