What Were You Doing On 9-11?

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by Harriet Hairston

In the midst of the firestorm caused by Rep. Joe Wilson’s disrespect of the POTUS, life goes on. There was a moment, a stitch in the time of our Nation’s history, when life was unceremoniously brought to a tragic pause. Although this article comes days after the eighth anniversary of 9-11, it still deserves attention, and for me, I’ll never forget that day…

The Air Force paid my way through school. I was pelted with eggs at a not-so-military-friendly school, but I kept wearing my uniform every Wednesday because those fools wasting perfectly good food were not paying for my education. It was capitalism at its best…I serve four years with a great salary for them paying my tuition, books and fees for three and a half years.

On September 9, 1999, I earned my commission as a second lieutenant and went off into the wild blue yonder as a section commander with Air Combat Command in Florida. The first two years of my career had their ups and downs, but I learned a lot, and made lifelong friends in the process. However, my focus was on a JOB, not serving my country.

On September 9, 2001, I was promoted to first lieutenant, but Friday, the 7th, we celebrated that promotion at my job. More money, more shopping, more donations to charitable organizations, more freedom to do what I wanted and do well on the job.

Business as usual met me on the 10th of September. I had to once again reprimand some of the young airmen working for me for watching soap operas on the job. I told them it was unprofessional, and if they were going to enjoy the privilege of having a television in the workplace, that the channel needed to be news or military related.

September 11th came around, and I walked into my office on a rampage! No, these young ladies did NOT just totally disregard what I just said 24 hours ago! I mean, soap operas is one thing, but watching  a movie when you’re supposed to be working is another! Before I could say anything, I realized with horror that this was no action flick playing on the screen…it was the real deal, and my viewpoint regarding my “job” and career totally changed. As I watched the second plane assault that building, I realized that suddenly I was no longer engaged in a simple job. I was serving my country!

As the F-15s began to ramp up, preparing for their inevitable orders, the tanks and weapons began to arrive at the entrances and exits to the base, and we all realized that our fun and games during operational readiness exercises were about to be put to the test for real, I no longer took my career for granted. I was suddenly more appreciative of the sacrifices those who had served before me had made for the sake of freedom.

That’s the long and short of my story and how 9-11 altered my life.  Suddenly the words of Charles Shurz rang clearly: “Our country, right or wrong. When right, to be kept right; when wrong, to be put right.”

What were you doing, and how did 9-11 change you?

God bless!

~ Harriet

Harriet Hairston, a freelance writer, human resources administrator at an HBCU and creator of the motivational blog, “Can She SAY That?!?” has a unique style that brings readers into her life through her transparent demeanor. She lives in Louisiana with her husband and two sons.  You can reach her at harriet_hairston@yahoo.com.


About the author

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are the creators of the award-winning blog BlackandMarriedWithKids.com . They also are behind the Amazon.com bestselling DVDs Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me and Men Ain’t Boys that explores manhood in the African American community. The Tylers are also the proud parents of four children.



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  • Lady4Christ

    One thing you said struck a nerve with me because I remeber thinking the exact same thing. What movie is this? I was 17, pregnant and in High school, watching teachers be frantic and students hoping for early dismissal. Not truly aware that tragedy was on the television and fear was in the air. I remember looking down at my 8 month pregnant belly and wondering, “What am I bringing my child into?” Now some 8 years later I still wonder what I have brought my child into and pray constantly because this world needs it.

  • Anna

    Before 9/11 I did not want to bring another life from my body in this world. I don’t trust day care centers and even if hubby had a great job that I could be a stay at home mom it’s not happening. I like making and spending my own money. You can call me selfish and/or afraid. This world is crude, rude and not how I grew up. We did not have to lock our home doors or close our windows at home or keep our car windows rolled up while drivng as we do now. When 9/11 happened I was at my current job for a little over 2 years and tuned on the tv which I never did before work until that day. I saw the first plane hit and I said this is not a accident( I saw the plane go straight through the building and my stomach sunk). Pilots always try their best to devert crashing into places where ppl are. I was glued to the tv and then the other plane crashed. It was a sad day and to see all the ppl, is nothing other than I can describe as choas and confusion just made me unsettled, unsafe and afraid. I think all of America lost some, if not all of their sense of security that day. I live in Ohio and did visit New York and saw “ground zero”.( Four years afer). It’s very emotional and raw and if anybody can not walk away without feeling something, they are not human. I will never forget 9/11.

  • MissJay

    I just remember being at school (college) and on the way we heard about the “accident”. We kept hearing planes overhead (the school is not far from Langly AFB) which wasn’t strange but it was more than normal. Then we were evacuated from the building. That’s when we started getting info and passing it on. That day my mom was supposed to fly on business. I realized before I knew all flights were grounded and was so scared. I just know that I’ve never felt so scared and worn out. Worn out because there wasn’t a channel except cartoon network that’s wasn’t playing continuous footage of the planes hitting the towers and them falling. It was like tourture and completely emotiobally draining. It got to the point where I didn’t want to watch TV for a while.