Comments on: Marriage Is More Than Just Work

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:55:40 +0000

Aja, I loved this article it was great! Marriage is one of the best things that God created. No matter what we have gone through I know he is the one that God made for me! After almost 5 years of being married and a 2yr old and 1yr old I know that my husband is the best!! He provides, cooks, cleans, and helps me take care of the kids. Nothing better than a teamplayer, and I have that and more in my hubby. I love you baby!

By: Yolanda (The Queen)

Yolanda (The Queen) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 04:27:43 +0000

Go on with yo’ bad self then, THB13!

By: THB13

THB13 — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 20:59:55 +0000

THIS ARTICLE EXPRESSES SO MUCH TRUTH, WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 19 YEARS AND I WOULD NOT CHANGE ANY OF THEM.(THE TRIALS/THE TRIUMPHS HAVE MADE US WHO WE ARE)I CAN RELATE TO SO MUCH IN THIS ARTICLE, BEING A COOKING HUSBAND(IN THE KITCHEN AS WELL AS IN THE BEDROOM)(SMILE)ALLOWS MY WIFE A LITTLE ME-TIME, SHE CAN INTERACT WITH THE KIDS WITHOUT HAVING TO RUSH GETTING DINNER READY. I LOVE HER DEARLY, SHE IS THE JOY OF MY LIFE(APART FROM MY FAITH IN GOD)MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME…PEACE

By: MissJay

MissJay — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 04:35:13 +0000

@Lamar and Harriett thanks!!!

@tweedee- congratulations!!! We will have the same anniversary! Good luck and I’ll be praying for you!

By: Shawnte

Shawnte — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 16:30:59 +0000

I love this article. I wish I could talk so positive about my marriage. We’re going through the new addition to the family blues, but I’m learning to appreciate what I do have even if its not what I want. Thanks for the inspiration.

By: TweeDee

TweeDee — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 23:23:41 +0000

This article was great and like MissJay, I will be married in 3 days. So I will keep these things in mind as I have for a while now. We’ve been together over 10 years but decided to tie the knot this year. Very exciting times!

By: LLC

LLC — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 19:42:01 +0000

loved the article

By: Yolanda (The Queen)

Yolanda (The Queen) — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:53:35 +0000

A wise man said that if the husband gives 100% and the wife gives 100% then both spouses are taken care of in the marriage!

By: Candace Littles

Candace Littles — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:24:00 +0000

So many talk to me about marriage because I have been in a rough one for 16 years and now I have a really good 2nd one. But there seems to be so many similar concepts I keep hearing. I hear so many that say marriage is such hard “WORK”. The “work”part of marriage is keeping the household organized, parenting together, keeping the family money straight, making proper decisions for the whole family. It should not be “work” to spend time with your mate, it should not be “work” taking the time to help out around the house, it should not be “work” to help with the kids, it should not be “work” to put a meal together, it should not be “work” to come home at a respectful time, last but not least it should not be so much “work” to “NOT” be sleeping with other people. If you have to “work” at any of these things then the concept of marriage is not the problem.

By: nayonowen

nayonowen — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 16:21:11 +0000

i remember when my marriage was easy. i felt blessed and wondered why so many of my friends were going through hard times. well i have to say now that i am on going on my 17th year, marriage is now hard. i just know that my best friend is now a stranger. i guess we all change and go through different levels in our lives, but i find myself not wanting to go through it with him. i am staying in prayer and hopefully we will come through this and get back on easy street. lol. yes, now i understand marriage is really a job and if i want to keep my job and have to give 100%