Comments on: My Wife Is NOT My Friend (On Facebook)

By: TheParentsEducator

TheParentsEducator — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 04:22:00 +0000

But I really don’t ‘get’ how Facebook adds strain to a relationship. Seriously, if you’re married then you should not be worried about other people’s comments-they obviously were intentionally being messy to see what would happen and they pretty much won, sadly.

By: Jazzandtray

Jazzandtray — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 05:50:00 +0000

My husband and I have been Facebook friends for almost 3 years now and have never had an issue with any of that. We don’t don’t comment on each other’s statuses very often or send love taps. We use it to help each other level up in all the games we play and to keep in contact with each when either one of us is on the road. We don’t give a hoot about what our ‘friends’ say about us, unless they’re inviting us out to dinner!! Anybody outside of US that dared to comment negatively on any of our posts to or about each other would be quickly ‘un-friended’!!

By: Bernard

Bernard — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 11:05:00 +0000

Drybye5 I know how you feel. I agree with you. I thought I was the only one in that situation. My wife’s high school boyfriend has been trying since 2005 (and he’s married). I know she has to be friends with him on facebook. She’s friends with our children but won’t let me friend her. I’m sure divorce is the near future. 20 years wasted.

By: Drybye5

Drybye5 — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 19:37:00 +0000

You have got it all wrong. Although you are an elegant writiing, and being a master of such you can very easily sway the masses into believeing your rationale as correct, I beg to differ, it is wong. Absolutely wrong. I’ve been with my wife for 25 years married for 23, it’s not perfect but for what ever reason we are together. If you can friend ex boyfriends, and girlfriends (depending on your gender), then the most important person to you (your spouse) has got to be “Friended”also. No question about it. To me it’s simple, if you have nothing to hide, then they (your spouse) should be friended. There’s alot I could easily say regarding this subject, but suffice it to say that after all this time with my spouse we may be headed towards divorce as a result of her not friending me. Her teenage Bo hasn’t let the past go, and it seems neither has she, so with that said, not friending your spouse is a red flag.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 14 Jan 2012 04:12:00 +0000

I think it’s Ridiculous when a Social Network becomes More Important than Your Spouse.When You care more about your online aquaintances and Impressing those Online Aquaintatances than your own husband/wife… you got problems..Facebook is a Monster Marriage Destroyer.It gives your spouse the excuse to SHOP AROUND for INFIDELITY.And although it may seem harmless..Viewing Profiles of countless Provocative (at times) Men/Women…. you’re playing with fire.My advice to any married Couple,,have The Same Friends..Make a mutual understanding..and don’t try to have secret profiles..If you argue over this Monster Marriage Destroyer..Get Rid Of It….Don’t put Temptation in front of your eyes..There are plenty of ways to keep in touch with Childhood Friend such as Emails!!And If you really like Facebook..maybe keep it ALL FAMILY and Mutual Married Close Friends You BOTH have .

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 14 Jan 2012 03:42:00 +0000

this is Horrible..i’m so sorry..I Pray You get over Him and Move on with your life..Nobody deserves that..Sending Love To You Sister!!

By: mzthang

mzthang — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 22:25:00 +0000

Me and my hubby are fb friends and my friends know to be respectful when commenting on anything on my page

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