Comments on: Just Looking? http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/10/28/just-looking Promoting Positive Images of Marriage and Parenting Since 2007 Sun, 12 Feb 2012 07:03:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Da Minister http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/10/28/just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-19457 Da Minister Sat, 31 Oct 2009 21:56:18 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=6669#comment-19457 I'm going to comment hopefully to glorify God. We can't not make it known enough how bad "today" is from "yesterday" or even think about how worst "tomorrow" can become. But the thing about "yesterday" was the establishment of strong family values which were inherited by the children. Our "today" family has lost values and strength and turn to whatever that is appealing. I'm not thirty yet but I remember when the neighborhood would ride bikes to the park for a day of outside recreation. The problem is not pornography that's the results. The problems is an idle mind which becomes the "devil's workshops". Our generation especially in the south couldn't wait to come from school to go outside and play with our friends. Some parents even allowed homework to be completed later so children could go out and play, discover, explore, & adventure into life. Playboy magazines were seen either in an alley in the trash or behind the counter at the local corner store. Until we realize that we have become so idle and doing extracurricular things we since "yesterday" we will always have bad "today's" and worst "tomorrow's". This is my heart upon the letter... I’m going to comment hopefully to glorify God. We can’t not make it known enough how bad “today” is from “yesterday” or even think about how worst “tomorrow” can become. But the thing about “yesterday” was the establishment of strong family values which were inherited by the children. Our “today” family has lost values and strength and turn to whatever that is appealing. I’m not thirty yet but I remember when the neighborhood would ride bikes to the park for a day of outside recreation. The problem is not pornography that’s the results. The problems is an idle mind which becomes the “devil’s workshops”. Our generation especially in the south couldn’t wait to come from school to go outside and play with our friends. Some parents even allowed homework to be completed later so children could go out and play, discover, explore, & adventure into life. Playboy magazines were seen either in an alley in the trash or behind the counter at the local corner store. Until we realize that we have become so idle and doing extracurricular things we since “yesterday” we will always have bad “today’s” and worst “tomorrow’s”. This is my heart upon the letter…

]]> By: Ronnie http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2009/10/28/just-looking/comment-page-1#comment-19386 Ronnie Fri, 30 Oct 2009 19:41:45 +0000 http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/?p=6669#comment-19386 Aja ..this must be a really touchy subject!! My personal perpestive is that I would not like it if my husband viewed porn on the internet...so it would not work for my marriage. Back in day when I was dating, I had a very bad experience with guy that looked at this stuff on the internet. He actually came to my home and looked at some sites from my personal computer. I was so angry and he lied and said that he was googling one thing and that the porn popped up. But that never happened to me. I asked him not to do that from my computer ever again. Plus I agree with you that the eyes are a window to the soul!!! Aja ..this must be a really touchy subject!! My personal perpestive is that I would not like it if my husband viewed porn on the internet…so it would not work for my marriage.

Back in day when I was dating, I had a very bad experience with guy that looked at this stuff on the internet. He actually came to my home and looked at some sites from my personal computer. I was so angry and he lied and said that he was googling one thing and that the porn popped up. But that never happened to me. I asked him not to do that from my computer ever again.

Plus I agree with you that the eyes are a window to the soul!!!

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