Comments on: My Wife Is NOT My Friend (On Facebook)

By: Lorraine Allyson-Govan

Lorraine Allyson-Govan — Sun, 21 Apr 2013 20:04:05 +0000

Thank you

By: Lorraine Allyson-Govan

Lorraine Allyson-Govan — Sun, 21 Apr 2013 19:18:40 +0000

I love and adore my husband. But I am happy we are not friends on Facebook. We are territorial by nature on relationships and we really don’t want to see all those sweet messages to our spouses from other people. So to protect each other, we will be friends where it matters, in real life.

By: Amelia

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By: Miko

Miko — Mon, 11 Mar 2013 00:06:09 +0000

My husband and I are friends on fb and bp. If I am having an issue w my husband, only he and I know. We are adults not children. We don’t post our entire lives on fb because every aspect of our lives is not for everyone to see. Just a suggestion…..if you don’t want people in your business don’t post it on any social media. And remember…..everyone you friend on fb is not your friend! Let’s be smart about social media. It not fb that’s messing up folks lives, it’s what they say on fb.

By: Val

Val — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 22:07:56 +0000

Okay, so I have to agree with Eric because once I invited my husband on my page, all hell broke loose. Lol
I am the type to converse with both male and female friends and I see nothing wrong with it. However, he does. I never once went into his facebook to read all into his stuff, however he has done so to my account through his own confession. I deleted him at that instance because we begin having arguments about comments that he thought was insulting towards him, even though the comments were about learning from past “mistakes” not present. All this to say, if you like giving advice and engaging in conversations with those that are in the dating scene but are not yet married, you may give advice to them and it may come out as if you’re writing about your spouse. Also, people will compliment your pictures, both men and women, if your spouse has issues with that, you just need to remove them from your page and keep your marriage life separate. I am tired of having to explain every conversation or pic that I post.

By: Johnita Campbell

Johnita Campbell — Wed, 07 Nov 2012 19:56:22 +0000

This is a great article as I have recently gone through something very similar. My fiance and I were friends on facebook. We have a lot of mutual friends because we have known each other for many years and went to high school together. At first it was cute…that soon changed. We have had many a heated discussion about comments and perceived intentions. I noticed that I would friend someone and a few days later, he would friend them. After a while I began to ask him “how do you know so and so?” His response was often I’m just networking. Also, he would get genuinely upset when I did not give him public props for something he had done for me or in our relationship. Needless to say, this behavior got old very quickly and I deleted him as a friend. He was pissed at first but soon realized it was for the best. Talk about unnecessary drama…It is totally not worth it!

By: Tonya

Tonya — Thu, 25 Oct 2012 02:34:13 +0000

I totally agree with you regarding the fact that a public website is not the place to display personal relationship issues. My husband has ‘unfriended’ me on FB as well and is ignoring my friend request. I have discovered that this decision is for the best. We both have mentioned status updates and comments that appeared on the others page that lead to heated disputes. I love and respect my husband I’m currently working hard to reduce my suspicion, well actually eliminate my suspicions that only arise from FB. I have heard of several breakups and divorces that have occured due to FB issues. I dont want to be included in that statistic.

Family first, social media way down the line after nail color selection!

By: C.S. Stone

C.S. Stone — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 19:03:24 +0000

trust is a given in a mature, healthy relationship…

if you don’t have any… you shouldn’t really be in a relationship.

as for locking phones, etc… that’s a SECURITY issue… not a privacy issue and if that bothers you… again.. work on trust.

By: C.S. Stone

C.S. Stone — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 19:01:35 +0000

it would never occur to me to add my husband (he thinks Facebook sucks anyway, so its not even an issue in our lives)… but I can see where it could become an issue. Why would I want to interact with him online when he’s sitting across the room from me? And yes, I can see outsiders who are completely clueless to the nuances of our relationship becoming an issue.

I agree 100% on not having your spouse as your friend on Facebook.

By: becky

becky — Fri, 03 Aug 2012 17:17:16 +0000

yes, I appreciate your comments. I believe respectful moderation is the key as well. My facebook issue is that my boyfriend has un-friended me and his states i am childish because it upsets me. I believe that if you are not doing and saying anything inappropriate it would not matter if we are friends or not…and that he just proves my point. It is common sense, every one is connected at some point…6 degrees of separation, i say. Thanks again for the perspective from a married women.