Show us some love and check out our new spot on Essence.com where we’ll be blogging a few times per week. Do us a favor and leave a comment if you could. We want to show them how the BMWK family gets down! (On the Essence blog you must click on the post’s title to enter a comment) http://blogs.essence.com/black_and_married_with_kids/. Our first post is abut finding your happily ever after and how you define that.