Consumer Debt Can Be A Money Suck

by L. Marie Joseph

Having consumer debt can be toxic not only to your finances but also your family life.

For some, their entire paycheck goes to monthly expenses and housing. Then they use their credit cards as a security cushion, to get by until the next pay period.

This becomes a perpetual process that becomes harder to escape. You feel normal because all your friends, peers and co-workers are living the same way. Living paycheck-to-paycheck is not embarrassing any more. Using debt as a crutch is almost expected.

The economy crashed because they are more people that believe in having credit than CASH. I have seen friends lose homes, jobs, and cars. They have all lived well above their means. So when they experienced a job loss, everything came crashing down.

I do not have a credit card and all my friends thought I was abnormal. They couldn’t believe it.  But when the recession loomed, I had no panic moments.

When you lose a job and owe money to creditors? It quickly becomes a headache. Losing a job and having no debt is something you can overcome quickly, less stress can make you think clearer. Looking for a job and doing an interview when you constantly have bill collections calling you everyday will make you become desperate.

Do not over leverage yourself. My husband and I live modestly; actually we live on one salary. We pay bills from one salary and use the other as saving and discretionary income. It has worked for us. Why? We have no consumer debt lingering. So if one of us loses a job, we will not panic.

This guest post comes from L. Marie Joseph, author of First Generation White Collar:  A practical guide on how to get ahead and not just get by with your money. You can also follow her on twitter


About the author

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are the creators of the award-winning blog BlackandMarriedWithKids.com . They also are behind the Amazon.com bestselling DVDs Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me and Men Ain’t Boys that explores manhood in the African American community. The Tylers are also the proud parents of four children.



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  • http://www.mochamoney.com Alonzo

    I’m always reminded of the bible verse “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender.” Whenever we go into debt we take away a little bit of our self-determination. The more debt, the less control we have over our own lives.