With the availability of discount programs through sites like Groupon.com or LivingSocial.com you can get great deals on everything from a night at the local bed and breakfast or drinks at a favorite local restaurant.
Snap up these deals and tuck them away for a rainy day. When they come home stressed out by their job, pull out a weekend getaway that you picked up for cheap. Or add a little spontaneity with a mid day call to your husband or wife to meet you at the local bar or restaurant after work.
When was the last time your spouse surprised you with a gift or vice versa?