Are You Your Spouse’s Greatest Supporter?
“Small thing to a giant” is one of my favorite quotes spoken to me by my husband. He has this amazing way of reminding me just how resilient I really am; especially during the moments I find myself stressed about a situation. He knows it’s just what I need to hear to get me back on track and remain focused. My husband truly believes that I am able to do any and everything I imagine. He doesn’t waste any time telling me all that is possible. Even when I share a goal that might seem impossible at first, he assists me in thinking through the kinks so it’s feasible. This form of support is part of what strengthens marriages.
When I hear couples share what attracted them to one another, one of the most common responses usually centers on support. Most of the married men I know listed their future wife having their back as what ultimately led them to pop the question.
As children, our parents played the major role of supporter in our lives. Do you recall how proud your parents were of you when you performed well? Whether it was in school or during a game or dance recital, you could always find a proud parent somewhere behind the scenes. Parents normally never miss an opportunity to brag on their babies. Furthermore, when you questioned whether you were pretty enough or smart enough, parents never failed in reassuring you were all that and then some. Now that we are adults we still need that kind of support from time to time. It’s human nature to second guess ourselves occasionally. But if you have a mate by your side, who (in addition to loving you) recognizes and appreciates your greatness, you’ve struck gold.
One of the Webster definitions of support is “to keep from losing courage.” When the world is weighing heavy on our shoulders, there should be no safer place than within the confines of a marriage. I have found that a supportive relationship includes:
A partner who believes in your dreams no matter what and pushes you into making them a reality.
A partner who defends you and consistently speaks highly of you (especially when you aren’t around).
A partner who continues to trusts your decisions, even if you’ve made a mistake in the past.
A partner who is ready and willing to conquer the world with you and for you!
A partner who simply thinks you are all that physically and mentally.
Marriages where both partners demonstrate the type of encouragement above are definitely on the correct path toward relationship success.
BMWK, how do you show support for your spouse?
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