Heartbreak Hotel: Couples Check In Friday, Divorced By Sunday – Is This Good?

Divorces are not cheap, and they’re usually a drawn out process. But, what would you think about a couple who checked into a hotel on Friday and were parting ways by Sunday? That’s what’s going on at the Divorce Hotel.

A concept by Jim Halfens, bickering spouses can check into Hotel Divorce on Friday, and with the help of mediators, tax experts, and attorneys, the couple can part ways by Sunday. Black Enterprise interviewed divorce attorney Adelola Sheralynn Dow to learn more about how this Divorce Hotel operates and what goes on over the course of that weekend.

For one, the couple won’t be officially divorced by checkout time. Rather, they will leave with a separation agreement or a pre-divorce filing settlement negotiation. This will give the couple an overview of what their divorce will look like when it’s actually final, so you can leave separated, but not quite divorced yet. This is because although you have experts and attorneys on site, there’s no judge present to grant you your divorce.

This quicky arrangement doesn’t come cheap either. It cost between $3,500 and $10,000 depending on how much is at stake to be divided in the divorce. For couples who have a more complicated situation, that includes property, accounts, and children, this may not be the solution for them. Things like child support, visitation, and other things that may take longer to agree on should be handled the traditional route, as it could take longer than one weekend to figure things out and agree on an arrangement.

For now, Hotel Divorce has 20 locations, but they’re all in the Netherlands. What are your thoughts on the concept? If this was widely available would more people try to get divorced? Would this make people take marriage less seriously, if they could get out of it so quickly?


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Briana Myricks is a 20 something wife, Social Media Specialist, and student of life. She blogs about her world at BrianaMyricks.com.


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  1. myloverswife Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    We live in a microwave world. No one has the time to do anything because we are alays in a hurry. I suppose divorce is no different.
    • Briana Myricks Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
      My thoughts are the same. I guess since people can get married quickly, people want to get divorced just as quickly. Pretty sad.
  2. Superwife Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    People already don't take marriage seriously. It should be HARD to get married- requiring at a minimum, going through the same steps these hotels offer plus counseling. Not easy to get in and out.
    • Briana Myricks Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
      I agree Superwife. This is just going to set the thought of marriage back even further in the eyes of the public. I would love for their to be a Marriage Hotel, where people go through extensive counseling and workshops to learn how to make a marriage work, rather than being in such a rush to get out of one.
      • Lea Tuesday - 27 / 11 / 2012 Reply
        Amazing…how spouse are trateed that way. My miladiadtary husadband cheated on me and I saved his miladiadtary career by not reportading it because i thought about the family…I took care of our kids while is screwed around and trateed me bad and told me just to let me do what I want…he once never wanted to go to counseling.…I feel this was a slap in the face only allow to keep Triadcare for 1 year…I am the one not wantading the divorce, and now I only getadting Triadcare for 1 year and now wonadderading what i have to pay for the preadmiadums. He is curadrently not sharading his retireadment and is havading a joy ride of spendading every penny when techiadcally he could help pay our debt off which i going to have to pay half for and he make about $25000 more a year then I do…so yes I am getadting screwed.
    • JULZ Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
      Gun ownership has a waiting period and since guns and (bad) marriages are going together more often lately maybe some of the same safety measures should apply. Just saying...
  3. Adams Amantama Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    Mercy GOD! so has to help the institution of Marriage to the Glory of GOD.......
    • Briana Myricks Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
      Definitely a disappointment and a blow to the institution of marriage.
  4. Karra Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    A Hot Mess! That's all I have to say!
  5. Lorri Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    bad idea all around.
  6. The Travelin Diva Thursday - 30 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    I don't think something so sacred, intimate should be rushed & reduced to a weekend at a posh hotel. Spend that money on couples therapy.
  7. Niambi Friday - 31 / 08 / 2012 Reply
    I am really appalled by this. This hotel is profiting off of someone's hurt and pain. They should instead have counselors there trying to help people work their marriage out not giving them a separation or divorce.

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