Money Monday: Should You Give Your Kids An Allowance?

It seems kids are earning a nice chunk of change from mom and dad. According to a recent survey by the American Institute of CPAs (AICPA), parents are paying their children around $780 a year in allowance, or about $65 per month.

But, according to the AICPA, not all kids are so lucky. Only 61% of parents believe in doling out the cash for an allowance. Which brings up the question, – should you give your child an allowance or not?

Growing up, my siblings and I didn’t see much in the way of a weekly allowance. We did things around the house because they were expected of us, not because they would lead to a payday. Babysitting and after school jobs were the way we made our money.

But, it’s hard to argue against the merits of providing children with an allowance as a way of showing them how to manage money. Allowances teach responsibility. Children learn that money does not grow on trees. They have to work and save for what they want.

Or so the theory goes.

Reality, unfortunately, may be far different. As the AICPA discovered, only 1 percent of parents say their kids save any of their allowance. And, worse yet, parents are far less likely to force their kids to use their allowance to pay for “fun” items.

According to the AICPAs:

“Children have broad flexibility with the money they receive. They most often use their allowances to buy toys or to hang out with friends, according to the survey, as parents handle other purchases. In fact, parents who pay an allowance are significantly more likely to also pay for discretionary items such as sport- and hobby-related expenses, mobile phone service, movie rentals and digital downloads.”

Instead of teaching kids how to responsibly manage money, we may be simply teaching them how to spend it.

In the end it may not be enough to just provide kids with a weekly paycheck. It seems we have to take a more active role in teaching them how to spend some, give some, and most importantly, save some.

BMWK, do you feel parents should give their kids an allowance?


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Alonzo Peters is founder of MochaMoney.com, a personal finance website dedicated to helping Black America achieve financial independence.


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  1. blove Monday - 03 / 09 / 2012 Reply
    Here's another interesting article that piggybacks off of this one. Please check it out as you may want to share with our group: http://www.forbes.com/sites/financialfinesse/2012/08/30/the-troubling-trend-towards-family-loans-how-the-bank-of-mom-and-dad-is-stunting-economic-growth-not-to-mention-childrens-own/
  2. ReLee Monday - 03 / 09 / 2012 Reply
    We provide an allowance to teach the value of money. Unfortunately, there are far too many adults who do not understand how money works. As parents we address needs, the allowance is tied to chores. Our teenager uses his allowance to address "wants" i.e., fast food, movies, games, etc. He is also provided a lump sum for back to school shopping. It's awesome to see a kid shop knowing that the latest designer trends won't allow a dollar to go very far. In addition to the above we've educated him on the principles of debt free living. Our goal is to prepare him for life, we believe it's working but only time will tell. :D
    • Niambi Tuesday - 04 / 09 / 2012 Reply
      Great job you are doing with your son to teach him about how to properly manage his finances.
  3. Niambi Tuesday - 04 / 09 / 2012 Reply
    I think the allowance must be tied to something worth working for such as a chore so that they understand that money is something you have to earn and is not just given to you. The parents should explain the importance of having financial discipline and being a good steward. In addition to that, the parents could open up an account for the child (UGMA/ UTMA custodial account) and teach them the basics such as how to deposit money in the bank, how to balance a check book, etc. At an appropriate age, you can have them take a financial literacy class (especially in high school) so that they are prepared as they enter college and adulthood and can even pass on the knowledge they learned to their children. This would assist in breaking the cycle of poverty and establishing the cycle of wealth. Wealth is not just having alot of money, it's also about making sound financial decisions and managing your finances wisely.
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