9 Things Every Woman Should Know About Her Husband

BY: - 30 Aug '13 | Marriage

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Do you ever look at your husband and wonder “what on earth are you thinking?” You aren’t the only one.  Since the day we each ventured out on our first dates, most of us have struggled with trying to figure out why our men behave the way they do at times. With some time and a few (okay, maybe more than a few) conversations, I think I have finally embraced one undeniable truth – men have their own language and they have no interest in teaching us how to speak it.  We have to figure this thing out on our own.

Can we accept the fact that our men are from mars and what exactly does that mean?  It means that if we are going to make this marriage thing work we have to learn to communicate pretty darn well, and in order to do that we need to learn how to speak the language on this other planet – even when it doesn’t make any sense at all.

By taking the time to really know who our husbands are and what their actions mean, we improve the quality of our relationships.  After all, nothing is more frustrating than trying to spend a lifetime with someone you don’t get (or someone who doesn’t get you).

Certainly not all men are created equal, so some of these tips may not apply, but I think that generally speaking life might become a little easier for you and your husband when you know a few important things about him.

1) He says I love you without actually saying it.

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Try to focus on his actions, because they will always say far more than his words ever will.

About the author

Martine Foreman

http://www.candidbelle.com

Born and raised in Brooklyn, New York, Martine Foreman is a freelance writer and lifestyle blogger. To get tips for living your best life and also follow her crazy journey as a busy mom, wife, entrepreneur and honest chick from Brooklyn (now living in the burbs), check out her personal blog, CandidBelle. Martine resides in Maryland with her husband, two kids and crazy cat Pepper.

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14 WordPress comments on “9 Things Every Woman Should Know About Her Husband

  1. Aminata

    Would you please write an article on ” How a man should love his wife even when she gained weight during pregnancy and be supportive when trying to lose weight”

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    1. B

      She bore your child and now you are talking about how of I love her since she gained weight, even though she’s trying to lose it. Men…ugh!!! You love her the same way you did when you said I do and honestly, you should love her more because of the miracle her body performed for your family! You will send that woman into depression if you don’t get over this and love her just as much as you did before.

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  4. Cassenorp

    You forgot a very important one…your husband needs you to be his freak! Hey, Martinez..love your articles, but did you even ask a man before righting this one.

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