Do you ever look at your husband and wonder “what on earth are you thinking?” You aren’t the only one. Since the day we each ventured out on our first dates, most of us have struggled with trying to figure out why our men behave the way they do at times. With some time and a few (okay, maybe more than a few) conversations, I think I have finally embraced one undeniable truth – men have their own language and they have no interest in teaching us how to speak it. We have to figure this thing out on our own.
Can we accept the fact that our men are from mars and what exactly does that mean? It means that if we are going to make this marriage thing work we have to learn to communicate pretty darn well, and in order to do that we need to learn how to speak the language on this other planet – even when it doesn’t make any sense at all.
By taking the time to really know who our husbands are and what their actions mean, we improve the quality of our relationships. After all, nothing is more frustrating than trying to spend a lifetime with someone you don’t get (or someone who doesn’t get you).
Certainly not all men are created equal, so some of these tips may not apply, but I think that generally speaking life might become a little easier for you and your husband when you know a few important things about him.
like what you're reading?