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Whatever You Dwell on Will GROW

August 27, 2010
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By Harriet Hairston Sometimes life throws cliches at me that I never pay attention to until way down the line.  Lately, the cliche that has been playing over and over again in my mind is this:  “Whatever you dwell on will grow.” There’s something about the power within the mind that will attract the very [...]

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Is There A Such Thing As “TMI” When You’re Married?

August 26, 2010
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by Tara Pringle Jefferson Recently, I was brushing my teeth before bed. My husband was already in the bed, half watching me, half watching the TV. As I turned to spit out my toothpaste, I got a glimpse of myself in the mirror. Oh, Lawd – is that what I look like when I brush [...]

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Kiss Your Spouse!

August 25, 2010
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by Aja Dorsey Jackson A couple of weeks ago at church a visiting pastor asked the married members of the congregation to stand to their feet. Off topic, but given the number of stories about Black marriage being virtually nonexistant, it was encouraging to see the number of married couples representing all ages. The pastor [...]

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What Relationship Messages Are We Sending Our Children?

August 25, 2010
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By Tiya Cunningham-Sumter My friend asked the question “are single mothers raising their daughters to be single?” She said that question was brought up in the beauty shop (you know we talk about any and everything at the shop). She surprisingly had to admit that she thought she just might be, but not intentionally of [...]

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How to Combat “The Marital Slide”

August 24, 2010
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by Harriet Hairston I read a book by Bruce Wilkinson that really opened my eyes to some of the negativity that I had allowed to enter my psyche regarding my marriage. He made it plain that no matter what happens externally in our marriage and general lives, how we respond is strictly up to us [...]

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Money Monday: The Power of “Free” – How It Makes Us Do Crazy Things

August 23, 2010
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by Dr. Charles Alonzo Peters Entering the Chicago subway station, I was reminded of the irrational power of “free”.  Previously solemn commuters were now rushing the entrance nearly killing themselves trying to get one of the free coffee mugs being handed out by a local merchant. From the way they were acting you’d think they [...]

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A Picture Of Love

August 23, 2010
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by Tara Pringle Jefferson I found this photo of President Obama and FLOTUS Michelle Obama posted on Facebook this past week. It was taken as the presidential couple took a boat tour of St. Andrews Bay in Floria. I instantly saved the photo and set it as my desktop. At first glance, it’s such a [...]

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Dear BMWK: My Husband Thinks He’s Mr. Right

August 20, 2010
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Dear BMWK, Even though he would probably say otherwise, my husband rarely admits to being wrong. Even when he does admit to being wrong and apologize, it is always done in a way that makes me seem equally as wrong, meaning his wrong is only ever a result of mine. Because of this, usually at [...]

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Miss Celie’s Blues: What We Can Learn From Fantasia Barrino

August 20, 2010
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by Harriet Hairston Sista, you’ve been on my mind… So…Fantasia Barrino attempted suicide because she was being implicated in an affair with a married man whose wife had had enough.  Adultery, no matter what form it rears its head in, is damaging to all parties involved. Fantasia attempts suicide and spends the night in the [...]

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