ATLANTA: Join Us Tonight for Love & Life in Atlanta – a Relationship Event!

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Singles and Couples Invited!

Join us as we get to the bottom of what Love & Life is really like in Atlanta!

Come Talk LOVE & Healthy Relationships With Atlanta’s Top Experts!

A conversation about relationshps (dating & marriage) for grown folks!

 

Wednesday November 28

Organix Food Lounge

Organix Food Lounge

239 Ponce de Leon Avenue, NE – Atlanta, GA 30308

Tickets: LoveLifeAtlanta.Eventbrite.com

$10 Per Ticket /$7.50 Each For 2 or More

Light Fare Provided with Ticket

 

Hosted By:

Lamar and Ronnie Tyler

Ebony Magazine Power 100 Honorees: Lamar & Ronnie Tyler

Founders of BlackandMarriedWithKids.com

Expert Relationship Panel Featuring:

Dr. Sherry L. BlakeJack A. Daniels Kenny Pugh

Dr. Sherry L. Blake – Braxton Family Values

Jack A. Daniels – Author “I Need a Wife Where are the Real Women?”

Kenny Pugh – Host Chat Kafe Show

Be Real

Sponsored By: Bethany’s Be Real Program

 

For Info: Call 301-343-1828

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Lamar Tyler wrote 2216 articles on this blog.

Lamar Tyler is co-creator BlackandMarriedWithKids.com. He also is the co-producer of the films Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me, Men Ain't Boys and Still Standing.

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The Problem With Being Natural! 4 Ways to Deal With Natural Hair Nazis

BY: - 29 Nov '12 | Home

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I love being able to jump in the shower, run a couple of miles or sit out in the sun without worrying about my hair ‘shrinking up’ and ‘ruining my style’. You see my hair (in it’s natural state) is curly, kinky and fabulous! Four years ago, I made a decision to go natural. I was tired of my hair ‘breaking off’ and not growing; so I decided to be drastic- I stopped getting relaxers. The majority of my family and friends thought I was crazy- they even tried to persuade me to wear my hair straight so that I could look ‘professional’. Needless to say,  I showed them…..When in a year’s time, not only did I have a new job, but my hair was longer than theirs!

So with all of the great things that I’ve gotten to experience because my hair is natural, there are still things that make me want to ‘fly off the handle’.  Mainly,  natural hair Nazis that try to tell me what I have to do to be natural. Before I go any further, let me tell you exactly what a natural hair Nazi is.

Natural Hair Nazi- (n)- a person who wears their hair natural and attempts to tell others what other naturals can/cannot do with their hair. They routinely go on social media and question if someone is really natural.

You see, occasionally I wear my hair straight. According to the natural hair Nazis, this is a violation of the rules of wearing your hair natural. Occasionally, I get color in my hair. According to the natural hair Nazis, this is a violation. I’m here today to tell every person who wears their hair natural, but who attempts to put perimeters on what defines being a natural,  that they need to take a seat.

That’s right. Sit down and be quiet. Being natural is just what the word means- a person without a relaxer (chemicals) in their hair. Women don’t have to wear their hair in an afro to be natural. Women can wear their hair straight and be considered natural. Women can get their hair braided, and wear weaves, and still be natural. Being natural is not a club that requires a membership that can be revoked by these card toting mean girls.

So what do you do if you’re experiencing natural hair Nazis in your journey to transition to being natural?

Follow these four steps to regain your sanity and deal with these ‘dream killers’.

  1.  Stop defending why you’re natural.
  2.  Be happy with the decision that you’ve made.
  3. Understand that not everyone will be supportive.
  4. Tell these Nazis to take a seat.

In the end, being natural was a decision that I am so glad I made. It may be difficult (at times) but my hair has thanked me by growing double it’s length.

BMWK – Have you experienced the Natural Hair Nazis?  What do you say to a person that questions why you are natural or how you are taking care of your hair?  If you are not natural, have the Natural Hair Nazis tried to make you feel bad too?

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Franchesca Warren wrote 44 articles on this blog.

Franchesca Warren is writer, author, blogger, educator, runner, entrepreneur, mother and overall BossyGirl. She's currently working on her second book detailing her chronicles of working in two of the roughest urban school districts with a release date of August 2012. You can find her full-time on her blog chronicling her life trying to balance it all and run a marathon by the end of the year. In her spare time she runs her own editing company, The Editing Nerd, and working on the launch of her first magazine. For a daily account of the good, bad and ugly of being a BossyGirl follow her on Twitter!

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