The Single Life: Why Lamman Rucker Wants to Get Married

BY: - 14 Jun '13 | Single

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When women find out I dated actor and advocate Lamman Rucker, they always ask why we aren’t together today. I think if we stayed in the relationship, we wouldn’t have chased our dreams. We would have chased each other. Lamman may not have moved to California to become a Hollywood heartthrob, and I would not have relocated overseas to host a television show. He wouldn’t have landed a television series, and I wouldn’t have given birth to a beautiful baby girl. Perhaps we ignited each other’s passions and pushed each other along the pathway to our divine destinies.

Our relationship wasn’t as glamorous as you might think. There wasn’t a paparazzi or limousine driver accompanying us on our first date. As a matter of fact, we both took a public bus to go to dinner at Max & Erma’s. He picked up the tab. I was a senior in high school, and he played basketball at a local university. Over the weeks and months, he hung out with my friends and met my family. One night, he dropped me off and then went out to a nightclub with my sister and her friends! I had a curfew and was underage.  Sometimes I miss the innocence of my first relationships—no pressure to have sex and definitely no pressure to get married. We didn’t have a big blow up when we broke up. I went away to college, and he went away to California. Little did I know, years later we would meet again. I giggled a couple times through the interview. Although I had seen him over the years, I still pictured him as my high school sweetheart and prom date—not a grown man with a career and countless female fans.

Heather: This is so funny. I can’t take this interview seriously. I told my mom I saw you yesterday, and she was cracking up. OK, I’ll get it together. You know I write a singles column, so the first question everyone wants to know is, is Lamman Rucker single?

Lamman: (Smile) Uh, I’m not married.

Heather: Right.

Lamman: (Laughs)

Heather: Come on Lamman, don’t give me a hard time.  Do you want to get married? Not to me. Just in general. (Smile)

Lamman: I think one of the components of ultimate fulfillment is partnership. Things aren’t nearly as fun without someone to share it with. I believe if you can have a great partner—a friend, someone you can have a mutual passion with, all the challenges that you might go through in the process of finding that love is worth it.

Heather: Do you find that you’re dating with a purpose versus just hanging out with someone?

Lamman: As you mature, you have new goals—grown ass man goals. Naturally, as your goals and aspirations change, the whole formula changes. It’s not necessarily that I’m looking for a wife, but I am open to finding an incredible woman and realizing that it’s not only that I care about her and that she cares about me, but we want to invest in each other. Is this a woman that I love having around, but hate not having her around?

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Heather Hopson wrote 60 articles on this blog.

Not long ago, Heather Hopson was an award-winning television host in the Cayman Islands. Today, she's writing a different kind of story as a new mom. She gives readers the key to her diary and shares personal stories about single parenting, dating, transitioning to motherhood and her obsession with being what her family calls an "activity mom." The site features celebrity interviews, parent spotlights and confessional videos. Follow her journey through motherhood on Twitter @dearmomdiary.


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20 WordPress comments on “The Single Life: Why Lamman Rucker Wants to Get Married

  1. Lavenia

    Brother Rucker, is one of a kind its nothing like peace and in tune with (God) almighty its all about a one on one with him, your light will shine and you will see the (God) in me and in you he will show up.

  2. Anonymous

    Hey mr Rucker live is What we make of it most important to Live for GOD is First in all that we do and say hope u well fine the Special one God bless .

  3. Brian

    I saw Lamman on “Why did I get married” and I was hooked….. I fell in love with an amazing character portrayed by an amazing individual who gave this Interview life! Roll your eyes all you want, I’m male but if Mr Rucker ever swings through the back door…..he’s gonna be my final bus-stop!

  4. Tamika

    I love Lamman’s character on everything he plays in. If I every got a chance to meet him I would be excited. I often wonder if his personality is like any of the characters he has played and which one.

  5. Hope

    I wish he wasn’t the age of my son!! I would do any and everything in my power to keep that beautiful smile on his face…forever!! or at least till death do us part…haha

  6. ms luscious

    I really think that Mr. Rucker is absolutely one of the sexiest men alive im really just so mesmerized by his smile he just has one of those smiles that will light up any room i wish one day that i could meet him!

  7. Ms. S

    I have always been a fan of Mr. Rucker since the soaps… When
    T. Marshall Travers died I stop watching them….It does my heart good to know that a man is not afraid to say what he wants in a woman

  8. Kristofer

    Hello are using WordPress for your blog platform? I’m new to the blog world but I’m trying to get started and set up my own. Do you need any html coding expertise
    to make your own blog? Any help would be really appreciated!

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4 Ways To Stay Away From Revenge

BY: - 17 Jun '13 | Single

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Do we instantly go  from zero to revenge and avenge in thirty seconds?

Revenge does not serve any proper survival role. The original harm is already done. Revenge will not undo it Revenge and Anger is not a place to handle everything. If you act unloving towards others, you are drained of love yourself. Try this. The next time you feel crossed or taken advantage of by someone, instead of seeking revenge, or even entertaining fantasies of retribution, do the following:

1) Pause and do nothing at all about it until you feel some distance from the incident — at least 5 minutes, maybe much longer.

2) Say the following simple prayer or another of your choosing with the same message:

Lord, let me be an example of your love and your light, that others might see you through me. I pray that you heal any brokenness in __________ that led them to act in the way they did, and that you remove from me any desire for revenge. Your Will, not mine be done. Amen.

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