12 Ways To Turn A Woman On Without Physical Contact

BY: - 23 Oct '13 | Marriage

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Want to learn how to turn a woman on? Well, you have come to the right place. What you are about to read will give you different ways to peak a woman’s interest and can even arouse her. No this isn’t about where to kiss her, and different ways to touch her body. We are talking about achieving this without ever laying a finger on her. Non physical attributes play a big role in generating attraction with a woman, and here are 12 that can truly have an impact.

1. Intelligence

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For a lot of women, a smart man is a sexy man. Knowledge is power, and it can definitely intrigue a woman. Now I know what some of you are thinking, "nerds don't get the girls". Well some do. And the one's that don't have allowed other turn offs to overshadow this great attribute. Having the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation can have a very positive effect on a woman.


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  • Sandra

    This list is spot on!

  • http://www.stephanspeaks.com/relationship-coach-life-coach/ Relationship Coach

    thank you Sandra : )

    • Anonymous

      This was a wonderfully thought out list. Numbers 1,3,5, and 7 are especially essential for me.

  • http://facebook Karen Bass

    This is an excellent list. My husband made all 12 on the list!!!

  • Lynn

    First let me say…”WOW”!! Your list was dead on! I wish more mean would understand this list. As you said these things are not only beneficial to women but to them as well. Please put out a list for women. I’m curious to see how many qualities I possess from the list.

    I thoughly enjoyed this and look forward to reading more of your work!

    Lynn Isaac

    • http://www.stephanspeaks.com/relationship-coach-life-coach/ Relationship Coach

      Thank you Lynn : ). I believe a lot of men have seen men get plenty of women with much less, so some aren’t as willing to embrace a list like this. I am going to work on making a list for the women as well. I’m glad you enjoyed the article.

  • Wambui

    I Couldn’t agree more with your list. I feel validated now and know I am on the right track. I am not too picky and no I am not looking for Mr. Perfect. Thanks

  • http://sebanndottir.wordpress.com/ http://sebanndottir.wordpress.com/

    OMG! SOOOOO spot on! Stephan, how did you know these? 😉

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  • http://www.google.com vivian bryan

    goood list

  • Nicole

    Wow, this list is amazing. Now I understand why I’m attracted to this guy that has all 12 traits. My feelings are justified. Now just to get him to notice I’m attracted to him.

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  • Lita

    Nailed it!

  • Gabrielle

    I agree with everything on this list! Great information!

  • Brandi

    Spot on! Couldn’t have stated it better myself!

  • http://www.shamontiel.com Shamontiel

    I agree with all of these but no. 12. I’m far more turned off by someone who is overly religious. Someone who does things wrong all the time and says “Only God can judge me” is as annoying as someone who thanks God for finding a parking spot. But I’m agnostic so I just don’t get into it. I 100% agree with no. 1-11 though. *thumbs up*

  • Nita

    I love a man who likes to play with me: chess, scrabble, water guns, you name it.

  • C

    You are very much on point!! Regarding spirituality, don’t forget to mention that we love it but the man doesn’t need to be preachy all the time. For me, when every conversation we have turns into you bringing a sermon or a bible study, I find that to be a MAJOR TURN OFF!!!!

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  • Anonymous

    D most stupid ways

  • http://12waystoturnawomenon Buffy

    I agree with the list ???? But in reality most men dont go by these things

  • Mindstamina

    I disagree with the part about spirituality. I am an Atheist and yet I am very disciplined while committed to helping others instead of simply pointing fingers like many religious people do. I felt a sense of bias in that one and mad en me not take the list as serious afterwards.

    • http://www.stephanspeaks.com/relationship-coach-life-coach/ Relationship Coach

      I can understand your position Mindstamina but #12 wasn’t saying that only spiritual people can be disciplined. Just like the rest on this list it is just a trait that many women do admire partially due to the aspect of the discipline it requires. So it wasn’t about bias, no more than adding being a handyman was. Just a list of traits that you can find many women are turned on by.

  • Maria Rimmer

    Totally spot on 1-11 for me anyway . Regarding God as an external influence is a turn off , a man spiritually connected , in tune with himself and others and is work in progress then yes a great big turn on

  • dynamite

    You are on point! How did u know all these? ur a gifted genius.