The word “quit” in this heading is not a synonym for divorce. I’m not talking about divorce, the “quit” I’m referring to is slightly different. There are couples who have decided to remain in unhealthy relationships, but have emotionally checked out. For whatever reason, whether it’s cheaper to keep her or it’s just more convenient to stay, these couples are purposely contributing to unhappy marriages.
While their decision to stay might be considered noble to some, if the effort doesn’t match it’s really pointless. It might seem strange to label it ‘contributing’ when it refers to something unhealthy, but it happens often. Participating in the negative energy, bickering and finger pointing are just some of the examples. A relationship, especially a marriage, cannot survive if there is no energy or lifeline. Expecting something to improve without taking action, will continue to lead to disappointment.
Being unhappy is a choice that can be changed at any time; any time both partners decide. Unfortunately, one of the partners usually has to lead by example. And if you are consistently playing that role, it makes sense that you’re ready to throw in the towel. But here are a few reasons I’ll challenge you to fight just a little bit longer and harder.
BMWK, what reasons would you add for not quitting on your marriage?
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