Many cringe at the idea of marrying, let alone dating, someone who has children from a previous relationship. But blended families aren’t as bad as they may seem. Rev Run and his wife, Justine, pulled it off and so did Steve Harvey and his wife.
But for all of you who still have your doubts or want some pointers on how to make your blended family work, check out the list of tips from Melissa Gorzelanczyk of Peace & Projects below.
1. Fact: Stepchildren will never treat you the same as their biological parents. They can love you endlessly and appreciate you, but you are in a different role. Sometimes, this can be an even bigger role than a biological parent, but you should be prepared that the kids will treat you in a different way.
2. Don’t expect perfection. Harness the power of compassion and give everyone time to grow. You are all starting over ““ starting fresh ““ and there will be growing pains.
3. Don’t compare yourself to The Ex. You are both unique individuals with different life experiences. Your children will be lucky to have the love and wisdom all parents can offer.
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