We had the opportunity to talk with Super Bowl Champion, Jerome Bettis, about how he lives with a severe allergy which puts him at risk for anaphylaxis, and his new "Severe Allergy & Anaphylaxis Playbook" created to help others who live with it. On and off the field success comes from preparation The former Pittsburgh Steeler great, known as "The Bus", has a football … [Read more...]
Are You Unaware of the “Fault Lines” in Your Marriage?
You have probably experienced storms in your marriage. Most marriages can withstand a storm or two every now and then. Storms can typically be predicted, just like real weather-related storms can. And you can usually tell how long they will last. While storms can come and go quickly, and many times predictably, other marriage issues may seem to come out of nowhere. Similar … [Read more...]
5 Ways Husbands Can Do What Jesus Did…in Our Marriages
If you are familiar with biblical principles in marriage, then you have heard the call to husbands. We are called to do what Jesus did for His bride, the church. We are to love our wives like Jesus loved the church. Today, Good Friday, is the day remembered as the day Jesus died for his bride. But what does that mean we are to do for our wives? Are we not doing what … [Read more...]
Top 10 Date Ideas to Improve Communication in Your Relationship
If communication in your relationship is lacking it becomes a challenge to have a great relationship. When relationships fall apart communication can usually be pinpointed as a cause. Strong relationships and marriages usually have solid communication as a foundation. An important part of successful relationships I am a huge proponent of having regular date nights not just … [Read more...]
4 Great Ways to Deal With Unmet Expectations in Marriage
Every one of us came into marriage with certain expectations. And every one of us has dealt with the disappointment of unmet expectations in marriage. It is one of those things in marriage that will happen. When it does it can make you or break you. An opportunity to develop a better marriage This year my wife and I were asked to be a part of a group of seven … [Read more...]
Homeschooling Family With 7 Kids Gets It Done and Done Well
A family with seven kids is defying the odds by not just homeschooling all their kids, but sending them to college at the age of 16. The Henderson family, a black family living in Colorado has done things their way for many years. Wayde and Janelle Henderson have seven children, and have homeschooled them all for the past 21 years. Making education a priority As … [Read more...]
Husbands: 7 Things Your Wife Would LOVE to Get From YOU
I admit I don't always know what my wife wants from me. You should go ahead and admit it too, you don't always know what your wife wants from you either. My wife's needs change all the time, and they can be hard to keep up with. What spoke to her last week, may turn her completely off this week. That can be frustrating, very frustrating! The more you learn the more you … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Keep the Love Going When Valentine’s Day Is Over
Valentine's Day is over, and your plans went perfectly. You showered your spouse with kind words, gave gifts, and probably enjoyed a memorable evening or special date night. You both enjoyed it all, and felt all warm inside about your relationship. Now you can relax and get back to "normal." Hold up just a minute! Isn't that the "norm?" Kind words, gifts, and great times … [Read more...]
Yes You Can! Teach Your Own Kids By Homeschooling
Teaching your own kids by homeschooling is something many parents have considered. A few years ago, we considered doing so. Four years later we are homeschooling our twelve and seven year old children, while our three year old is following right after them. In addition, we also serve as directors and tutors of a community of 15 homeschooling families. We had many concerns … [Read more...]
The Blood, Sweat, and Tears in Marriage Are What Make It Work
Blood, sweat, and tears in marriage? You better believe it! Marriage is the most wonderful thing in the world, but don't get it twisted. There will be bloodshed, you will get sweaty, and both the wife and husband will get all teary eyed. If that seems harsh, don't worry, that is what makes marriage work. I am almost willing to say if you have not bled, sweated, or cried then … [Read more...]
How to Predict and Prepare for Storms in Your Marriage
Storms in your marriage are inevitable. Just like thunderstorms, you know at some point there will be one. Thanks to weather forecasters we are usually forewarned. But what about storms in our marriages? Is it possible to know in advance when they are coming, or are we just at their mercy? More importantly, how do we prepare for the storms? I'm willing to bet you own an … [Read more...]
Do You Have S.M.A.R.T. Marriage Goals for 2013?
As one year closes and the next begins, resolutions and goals for the new year become the focus. One of the most effective ways to set, and achieve goals is to follow the S.M.A.R.T. goal setting model. Most of us are familiar with it. Our goals should be Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Realistic, and Time-bound. My guess is that most of us have set S.M.A.R.T. goals in … [Read more...]
Why My Wife is My #2, and Still Cool With It
I have heard the average marriage lasts less than four years. So when you are still married, still married with kids, and still happily married with kids after eleven years, then you have learned some things about yourself and your wife. You don't have it all figured out, but you know a little more about what works and what doesn't work in your marriage. As mentioned … [Read more...]
3 Simple Ways To Be A Great Dad
Fatherhood is one of the most challenging things a man will encounter in his life. At the same time, it is one of life's most rewarding. As the father of three children, ranging from ages 2 to 12, I have learned a lot. And, I am certain I still have a lot more to learn. I am constantly looking to be a better father to my children. I know I am not the only dad that … [Read more...]
Am I The Only Husband Who Missed Sweetest Day…Again!
For the husbands who didn't realize they missed Sweetest Day, it was this past Saturday, October 20th. As the title of this post says, I missed it too...again! I have been married for 11 years, and I have to confess (shamefully) that I have never remembered Sweetest Day. Before you all go jumping on me, and calling me the bad husband, let me present my "case." No Google, … [Read more...]