As the parent of a tween girl, I am learning the challenges my wife and I faced as tweens and teens are no comparison to those our daughter may face. I can only imagine if some of the embarrassing and regretful things that I did as a teenager were exposed to the world, like that of many kids today. Social Media + Bullying Can Equal Tragedy When I messed up as a kid, the … [Read more...]
10 Family Activities Sure to Create Memorable Moments
What makes a family happy? Is it the things we possess? Or is it the time spent together? My guess is most people will answer time. Even deeper, it is the quality over the quantity of time. Quality vs. Quantity Family Time Today, families can spend a lot of time together; but that time may not always be quality time. Picture a family sitting at home with dad … [Read more...]
Why You Should Know Which Marriage Season You Are In?
The Fall Season is here, and depending upon where you live you can be caught off-guard by the seasonal change. I live in Indiana, and the weather can be a little unpredictable. One week it could be in the high 80s, but you can find yourself in the 40s in the following days. Or you could wake up to 35 degree weather, and by the afternoon be looking at low 70 degree … [Read more...]
Is Bullying Leading To More Homeschooling Families?
October is National Bullying Prevention Month. To kick the month off, Lamar Tyler of BMWK and Tyler New Media, released their latest music video, titled Mike Bully (Stand Up for Our Future). The video has a message that is sure to touch many lives, as bullying seams to be increasing nationally. Or, it least more people are becoming aware and acknowledging it. Statistics … [Read more...]
5 Ways Michelle Obama Took “Supporting Your Spouse’s Career” To The Next Level
Last night's Presidential Debate, nor the results, were ideal for the Obama family. Much of the post debate feedback was in favor of Barack Obama's opponent, Mitt Romney. Aside from that, it was the Obama's 20th wedding anniversary. Can you imagine celebrating your 20th anniversary on a "double date" with the couple who is trying to go "Donald Trump", and fire your … [Read more...]
Date Your Daughter Early, or Compete For Her Heart Later
The dating age is probably the least anticipated time in a father's life. Every dad, who has a daughter, will reach this point someday. And I'm pretty certain it is one of the first things a dad thinks of when he hears the words, "it's a GIRL!" Well, it was for me. The dating age seems to be the point where you are no longer number one in your daughter's heart. That can … [Read more...]
A Woman Unknowingly Married Her Father, and You May Have Done The Same
There are some pretty outrageous stories posted online, but a recent story I came across in the Huffington Post may be one of the strangest. Valerie Spruill, a woman from Ohio, learned her deceased husband was actually her biological father! Yes, she married her father, and had no idea until after his death! The most disturbing part is family members knew, and, for … [Read more...]
Our First Marriage Counseling Session: “Divorce is NOT an Option!”
"Divorce is NOT an option!" That is what my wife and I were told at our very first marriage counseling session. It actually wasn't a counseling session, but a marriage class at our church. To us it served as a marriage counseling session. We were just over one year into our marriage, young, and completely clueless! Marriage has never been viewed the same. I firmly … [Read more...]
7 Reasons You Are Missing Out By Not Exercising With Your Spouse
Exercising with your spouse is something many couples do not do. As much as we all know the benefits of exercise, as well as the benefits of spending time, that surprises me. My wife and I have been in that group, but I'm happy to say that now we consistently work out together. Just Getting Started Over the summer we began jogging every other day, which is something I … [Read more...]
Get up, Get out, GET ACTIVE! Your Health Depends On It
Obesity, diabetes, and cardiovascular disease are a few of the negative effects of not exercising. African-Americans are much more likely to be affected by these health issues than the general population. That is concerning on many levels, especially since we can influence our risk if we just GET Active. Physical exercise is something we all know is needed in our lives. … [Read more...]
Do You Believe that Marriage’s Biggest Challenges Can Be Good For You
Money problems are the number one reason marriages end in divorce. Everyone knows this, and many have witnessed it. The finances in your marriage have the potential to be your biggest obstacle to having an awesome marriage. I'm convinced every marriage has dealt with this obstacle regardless how much money they have. My marriage is no different. I can truly say money … [Read more...]
Love and Basketball: How Combining Them Can Help Your Marriage
I have played and watched basketball much longer than I have been married, so I must admit I know more about basketball than I do about being married. However, I learned my basketball experience is actually beneficial to my marriage, especially the intimacy. It can be for your marriage too. What does basketball have to do with marriage? All great basketball players have a … [Read more...]
Why Your Marriage Needs a Husband With 4 “Faces”
Strong husbands are desperately needed in marriages today. The stronger the husband the better chance a marriage has of surviving and thriving. At the same time, the weaker the husband the more challenging it is to have a great marriage. When I say strong, I am not talking about physical strength. Addressing the challenges in manhood A few years ago I began a study with … [Read more...]
Husbands Stimulate Your Marriage…be “Domestic Sexy”!
Okay, I have to start off by being transparent. When I first heard the term "domestic sexy", my mind immediately went to the wife (my wife in particular) dressed in a French maid outfit cleaning the house, and...you fill in the blank. I know, I know, I should be ashamed! (I said I was starting off transparent!) As my mind came back from the gutter, I discovered the … [Read more...]
Back to (Home)school: How a Homeschooling Family Preps for the School Year
It is that time of year again. I hear buses in the morning rolling (fast!) through our neighborhood, the school supply shelves are picked over and practically empty at Walmart, backpack drives and giveaways are finishing up, and the kids are going back to school! Well, all except my kids. We are a homeschool family, so not much will change as we move into the Fall season. … [Read more...]