Women always want to know what men really think about their wives or just women in general. We want to know all of your secrets, thoughts and feelings. So I think it’s only fair to share some of our secrets with you (men), so you know what we think and how we feel. After a great conversation with a few other wives, we agreed on the following: We look at other men, just like … [Read more...]
4 Ways You and Your Spouse Can Become THAT Couple
Do you know a couple that you smile at when you see them? That couple seems like they have known each other forever and just seems like they were made for each other. I know a few of them and feel like my husband and I have become that couple too. Here’s how you and your spouse can become that couple. [imagebrowser id=330] … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Avoid Growing Apart In Marriage
I’ve heard of couples who divorce because they have grown apart and wondered what they could have done to save the marriage. Some of them grew apart after the kids left home, some grew apart while they still had kids at home, and some of them have no kids at all. I think a couple who has grown apart can make their way back to each other if they want to. So I’ve come up with … [Read more...]
3 Reasons the Grass May Be Greener on the Other Side
Everyone has heard the saying about the grass is greener on the other side. Or is it? Don’t allow anyone's relationship to make you question yours. No two people or relationships are the same, so don’t try to mimic anyone else’s because you really don’t know all there is to know about their relationship. While you are thinking about someone else’s relationship, consider these … [Read more...]
Don’t Hide Money! Read the Other 3 Ways to Avoid Having Money Ruin Your Marriage
Money is one of the all-time reasons couples get divorced. Either someone is not making enough, spending too much or not paying bills. There are probably several reasons couples fight and/or divorce over money. I thought I would share some tips that will hopefully help someone come to an understanding about money. Decide on how many bank accounts you are going to have. You … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Reap What You Sow in Your Marriage
We’ve all heard the saying that, “You reap what you sow” and most may believe that it’s true. I am one of those believers. I feel that if you want something, you should give something. To me it’s a law of reciprocity. Therefore, I believe however you want your spouse to treat you, that’s how you should treat your spouse. I’ll give you five examples. [imagebrowser … [Read more...]
6 Tips on How to Trust Again After Heartbreak
I was talking to two young ladies at work and Lady A told us how she was hurt by her daughter’s father a couple of years ago. Because of his infidelity, she left him and says she is content being single forever. Lady A is only 22. I asked her if she is sure about being alone or would she ever trust another man. She flat out stated she will never let another man close to … [Read more...]
10 Things You Should Know About Marriage
You may have received a lot of advice from different people regarding marriage, whether you are single, engaged or already married. I didn’t receive a lot of advice before I got married. But I have received some wise nuggets from a few family members over that last 17 years of my marriage. I will share what I was told and some things I had to learn on my own. Keep God in … [Read more...]
4 Ways You Can Avoid Hurting Your Husband With Your Words
I’ve been married seventeen years and there have been times that I used my tongue as a two edged sword. Whenever I felt like my feelings were hurt, I would respond by saying the most hurtful things to my husband. I didn’t care what I said, I just felt that I had the right to say what I wanted. Yes men say things too, but for my situation, I was the one using my tongue to … [Read more...]
3 Ways I Hustle for My Marriage Like I Hustle for My Money
Many times, people always talk about how they are out hustling to make money. They work constantly to be successful and there is nothing wrong with it. I applaud everyone that's on their grind working to achieve their goals. While I was thinking about the topic, I began to wonder if married folk are hustling for their marriage. So I'm going to share three ways to hustle for … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Ruin Your Marriage
There are many book and articles on how to have a great marriage. I've even written a few of them. So, now I'm going to do the opposite and share what I've learned about behaviors that can possibly ruin your marriage. Infidelity isn't the only thing that can ruin a marriage. There are several seemingly small things that can creep into your marriage and harm it. So, hopefully … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Get What You Want Out of Your Marriage
Sometimes in marriage, you may realize you are not getting what you want out of it. Sometimes you may wonder why your spouse isn't giving you what you want and or need. But there are solutions to your dilemma. Below I've listed three ways to get what you want out of your marriage. 1. Set realistic goals for your marriage. What do I mean by realistic goals? Well, don't expect … [Read more...]
5 Reasons Marriage is Better than Shacking
Shacking up is not the same as being married. Some think the only difference is a piece of paper. But that piece of paper holds a lot of weight. It is proof that you are bound together legally and God recognizes the union. Below are five reasons marriage is better than shacking. God ordains marriage not shacking. Marriage is a covenant between you, your spouse and Him. … [Read more...]
9 Something Blue Ideas for Your Wedding
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue. You may have the old, new and borrowed, but what about the something blue? If your colors do not include blue, there are many ways to incorporate the traditional blue. Here are a few. Have a blue bouquet or tuck pieces of blue accessories inside. Wear a blue garter under your gown. It won’t be seen unless … [Read more...]
6 Environmentally Friendly Wedding Reception Ideas
I recently attended a venue’s open house for upcoming brides to see what’s new for spring. I was surprised by the earthly effects of the décor which was very elegant. Your reception should incorporate your favorite things and if you are a “green” bride, then the following ideas should inspire you to try on your day. Consider using real china instead of plastic plates and … [Read more...]