In Response To: (Why) Do (Some) Black Women Love Thugs!?!?

Lamar Tyler

16 years ago

We still get comments on one of our older and more popular posts entitled: (Why) Do (Some) Black Women Love Thugs!?!?. If you haven’t checked it out yet make sure you do. Recently a yound cat came by and dropped a comment and then one of our regular readers dropped some knowledge and good advice back at him. Check it out below:

Brandon said:

Im a young black man 19 years of age fly as can be but i have had bad experiences with most black girls because im to nice and respectful hell i was raise with manners and i finally understand why i cant attract black females as friends or girl friends is because i dont act like a hood ass nigga thats why i refuse to approach any more black females unless they come talk to me there will be no conversation period.

T. Rogers said:

@Brandon,

That is the wrong approach, bro. My brother is 20. He complains about the same thing. He told me he does not think it pays to be a nice guy with most black girls. He says most do not show him any respect. Whereas women of other ethnicities respond well to his approach. My advice to you is the same I gave him.

1) Don’t change who you are. Don’t start being hard on women because it seems that is all they will understand. Don’t let other people change you.

2) Keep giving the sisters a chance. That is what my stepfather told me. I took his advice and am now married to a wonderful sister.