Ladies Can You Handle The Truth? 6 Things That Frustrate Your Man!
1) You can’t make up your mind
Whether it’s what to wear or what to eat, can you please just make a decision and stick to it??? Sometimes, it really just comes down to you overthinking things. The kicker though is that when you ask for our opinion (and we give you an answer) and then you aren’t happy with our answer! Then you wonder why we always say “it’s whatever you want babe.” or “it doesn’t matter!” We still love you though! HA!
2) You can’t be on time to save your life!
Okay, if we have to be somewhere at 8:00pm that doesn’t mean you start getting ready at 7:30pm and we leave home at 8:25….NO! I know you’ve been picking out clothes and doing your makeup for years, so why is it that you still can’t allow enough time to get it all done so that you can be on time? Your husbands even try to tell you an earlier time but you’ve caught on to our game, so we still end up late. Oh and that “I’ll do my makeup in the car” stuff usually doesn’t help either.
3) You want to talk during the game
The playoffs are not the time for you to bring up serious conversations during the fourth quarter. I know you think that just because we are chilling, watching the game that we don’t look “busy.” But understand we need to focus! The game isn’t just background noise because every man is a low key sports analyst when his team is playing. In other words, just wait until the game is over for any important discussions because, if not, you’ll probably get very shallow, quick answers that you won’t like. Just trust me on this!
4) You won’t get to the point!
Ladies, I know you think we need to hear every detail to the story, but the truth is that we just want you to get to the point. Give us the Cliffs Notes version of the story because honestly you lose us in the first five minutes and then get mad because we glaze over. Give us the outline and both of us won’t be frustrated.
5) You want us to do things on your time and in your way
I can’t stress this enough: ladies you aren’t our mothers and we hate to be treated like your child. If you want us to do something just ask us but don’t get an attitude if we don’t do it your way and on your time. If we agree to do something and we don’t do it in the first five minutes of agreeing to it, it doesn’t mean we aren’t going to do it. You usually ask us in the middle of the game anyways, so it’s not a priority right now. Oh, and if you decide to do it yourself that’s on YOU, so don’t get an attitude with US.
6) Asking for the truth and hating the answer
Ladies, please stop asking us questions that you really don’t want the answer to. You put us in these catch-22 situations by asking these loaded questions, and we know we can’t win either way. Don’t ask the question unless you really want the answer even if the answer isn’t what you wanted to hear.
Soooooo ladies….I’m sure you’ve got an attitude with me after reading this, but just know that at the core of this article, are a few things that might be frustrating your man that you had no clue about. Yeah I know you’ve got a list of 45 things that frustrate you about us too but that’s why relationships are about learning each other and compromising! Like I said…we still love you though!
BMWK fellas, what other things stress you out about your spouse?