Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am a 23-year old African American male and I have been searching for role models who can help me grow and succeed both personally and professionally. I am just starting my career as a computer programmer, but I am so discouraged. I am the only black male in the office and at times I question my abilities. I speak with my father occasionally, but he is a … [Read more...]
What Sexy Is
Idris Elba. Boris Kodjoe. Djimon Hounsou. And oooooh"...Denzel. Yes, yes, ladies. You know exactly where I'm going with this one. What woman hasn't found herself all hot and bothered by these subtly provocative brown-hued brothers? The mischievous eyes, those succulent lips, the chiseled-from-stone jawlines. Good grief, just the notion of their touch is enough … [Read more...]