By: Marcee Woodard When I was single, nothing was more frustrating than feeling like I was ready for my prince charming, but all I kept getting was his pet frogs. I knew what I wanted and I knew what I deserved, but with each failed relationship, it seemed further out of my reach. I longed to find the perfect guy for me. But, there was just one problem: I wasn’t … [Read more...]
Singles: 25 Questions to Ask Before You Give Them Your Heart, Time, and Body
I recently came across 20 Questions You Should Ask Before You Get Engaged by Bishop T. D. Jakes. As I began to scan the list, in my mind some of the questions really needed to be asked when you first meet someone. In today’s society, people are having sex before they know their partner's last name. Maybe if they knew the answer to a few pre-qualifying questions, they would … [Read more...]
Ladies: 3 Powerful Ways to Bring Out a Man’s Desire to Woo You
Are you confused because you've invested time and energy into a relationship with a man who tells you he loves, says he wants to marry you, but then suddenly pulls away and changes his mind? Do you want to know exactly what happened and how you can change things so that you end up with the love and marriage you desire and deserve? If you've found yourself in this … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: You’re Not Really His Girlfriend Unless He Does These 5 Things
You know your Mama said, “Common sense ain’t common.” And this has never been a more accurate statement when it comes to understanding whether you’re in an exclusive relationship with a man. What I’m about to tell you will seem obvious; I know. But you wouldn't believe how many sisters have ended up in dead-end situationships, wasting months and even years of their life … [Read more...]
3 Blatant Signs You’re Just the Long Distance Booty Call, Honey!
So you've met a great man online, but he lives thousands of miles away. You call, text, and FaceTime every day and he's everything you want in man. You make plans to see him and he insists that you stay at his place (to save you money, of course). You have a great time, and he tells you that he misses you already once you get on the plane to go home. Now that you're at home, … [Read more...]
Singles: 6 Ridiculously Creative Ways to Meet “The One” in 2016
Happy New Year! Everyone is excited about the New Year. And one thing on the mind of most singles is meeting and connecting with their potential mate. Many singles are tired of going out because they run into the same people which makes the pickings very slim. However, it’s a new year and its time for a fresh start. The best way to find a fresh pool of potential candidates … [Read more...]
2015’s Top 10 Relationship Articles for Singles that Want to Be Married
As we close out 2015 we’re reflecting on all the content you’ve come to know and love over the past year. Here are the top 10 articles our singles loved and read the most. Enjoy! #1) Confessions of Church Players: What Sisters Can Do to Protect Themselves Have you ever dated a church player? These are men who profess to be Christian, and manipulate you with religious cliches … [Read more...]
Ladies: 3 Signs You Need to Pump the Brakes in Your New Relationship and 3 Ways to Do It
When people hear that I met and married my husband in 11 short months, they often assume we had a whirlwind romance. The truth is, while we were madly in love when we got married, we used our heads to make a good decision. That out of control, head-over-heels feeling is amazing and it's one you should enjoy when you're in love. But you also want to use your head so you … [Read more...]
Who Says You Have to Have a Boo for the Holidays? 5 Ways Singles Can Beat the Holiday Blues
It's the most wonderful time of the year. Well, at least for some of us. The holidays can be a dreadful time for singles, and for good reason. Why? Tis' the "cuff season" of engagements and baby announcements. For some singles, the holiday can be a depressing reminder of the fact that you're alone, causing you to have "What Do the Lonely Do At Christmas?" by The Emotions on … [Read more...]
Singles: How to Date Multiple Men at Once Without Looking Like a “Slut”
A sister asked me, how can I date more than one man at once without looking like a slut? Apparently, this woman lives in a small town and is worried about folks from the church and community wondering why she was out with George on Friday, William on Saturday and Devon on Sunday. If you can relate to this sister, I feel you. Let me offer you some powerful insight on why you … [Read more...]
Help Please! I’m a 35 Year Old Single Guy Who Can’t Find a Woman that Meets My Expectations
Hey Dr. Buckingham, I am a 35-year-old single professional guy and I keep running into women who do not meet my expectations. I am looking for the total package. I am looking for a woman who is extremely attractive, humble, childless, down-to-earth, educated, professional like me, understands her worth and role, funny, feminine, spiritual and God-fearing, and freaky, but not … [Read more...]
3 Urban Legends that Will Block You from Real Love if You Continue to Believe Them
If you've been dating for any length of time you've probably heard things like: "You have to love yourself before you can love someone else." "A relationship can't heal you. Become whole first and then look for love." "Work on yourself before you even think about getting married." Well, what if I told you these truisms were actually urban legends that can block … [Read more...]
Too Grown for Games: How to Keep It Real in Dating Relationships
Tired of the games people play in dating? I so know how you feel! The modern dating culture is hard to figure out, isn't it? People make snap judgments about each other by online dating photos, dating app swipes and "good morning" text messages. It seems to all be a game, one that all too often leads to disappointment, exhaustion, frustration and even heartbreak. How can … [Read more...]
TOP 9 Things That Will Cause Your Relationship to CRASH!
NEWS FLASH…This idea of “RELATIONSHIP” is not always a smooth ride! We must understand that even though love and relationships are always a risk we can do things to give ourselves the best chance of making them successful. On the flip side there are things that we can do to make sure we have the most perplexing experiences ever. Sometimes, as a coach, I get so frustrated … [Read more...]
Straight Outta His Mouth: 3 Little-Known Commitment Fears Men Have And How To Handle Them
Men often share their deepest, darkest fears about love with me. I've listened to them tell me how they've cried themselves to sleep at night, why they go back to an ex (even after she's hurt them), instead of choosing the woman who loves them unconditionally, and how frustrated they are that they can't find a wife. If you're a single sister looking for a relationship, it's … [Read more...]