I recently had a brief conversation with a friend and he was trying to understand what a very close female friend of his meant when she said "Oh, you're just too nice". I honestly never had to tell a guy that, and I wasn't even sure what a woman could possibly mean by telling another man that. But we hear it all the time "nice guys finish last". To me, it's just always been a … [Read more...]
Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last, but Lame Guys Do
by Adam Butler Full disclosure: I consider myself to be a pretty nice guy, and I’m no stranger to the nice guy title. I mean, I try to treat women the right way; I hold doors, I say please and thank you, and I take absolutely no joy in being an a-hole. Now that I’m writing it all out, it’s funny because that doesn’t sound like a nice guy it just sounds like a good person; … [Read more...]