Marriage has long been characterized by many as an independence killer. It's not unusual to hear antagonistic phrases such as "ball and chain," or "on lockdown," when talking to people about their spouse or about getting married. This stigma, while it hasn't derailed the billion dollar wedding industry, continues to sully the image of truly successful marriages. It is, quite … [Read more...]
6 Practices of a Marriage That Runs Like a Well-Oiled Machine
When I hear the phrase "well-oiled machine" I think of something smooth and efficient with little to no defect. But I also know it earned its reputation as a result of a lot of hard work by everyone involved with bringing the product to market. Take a BMW for instance. No matter the series, a BMW is a much-coveted vehicle that has set the standard for many others. But it didn't … [Read more...]
At Last! The Secret To A Happy Marriage Is Revealed
I was at a restaurant not too long ago and saw an older couple. Maybe in their late 70s or early 80s, there was an air of serenity about them that bespoke decades of life and love together. They ate in comfortable silence, but somehow I just felt they were conveying something beyond words. As they walked out holding hands, I couldn't help but wonder. What's their secret? We … [Read more...]
4 Healthy Ways to Change Your Marriage in 2018
Well, 2017 is almost outta here! It's been one heck of a year. When it comes to a fulfilling relationship with your spouse, 2017 either knocked your socks off or left you wanting. If you're one of the lucky ones, you and your spouse took on the world like Bonnie and Clyde. You were in this life together. Your relationship was untouchable and everyone around you knew it. Your … [Read more...]
One Stranger’s Secret to Achieving 40 Years of a Happy Marriage
My husband and I were on a plane to the Bahamas when we struck up a conversation with the woman next to us. She asked us if we were married and for how long. We told her that we were closing in on our third year of marriage. That's when this nurse from New York City with nary a wrinkle told us that she was married for over forty years. 4-0. She smiled to herself the same way … [Read more...]
5 Things that All Married Couples Who Intend to Live Happily Ever After MUST Do!!!
Most couples enter marriage with a false sense of security. They believe that love will fill all of their empty spaces, erase negative emotions, make their mate telepathic, and protect them from hurt. Simply put, most couples enter marriage believing that love will conquer all. Most newlyweds are rendered temporarily blind by the euphoria of love and starting a new life … [Read more...]