I recently saw a marriage challenge online and it looked awesome. Of course, I decide to create one for my marriage and with YOU in mind. It’s essentially effortless and guaranteed to have a wonderful effect on your marriage. Whether you are going through a rough spot, in need of a marital tune up or just want to keep your special bond going strong, here is a simple, but effective tool. What are you waiting for? Take the 30 Day Marriage Challenge:
(Warning: At the end of the 30 days, you will become closer to your spouse and all love, honor and respect for your mate will begin to resurface)
WEEK ONE:
Day 1. Tell your spouse you’re glad you married them.
Day 2. Text your spouse and say, “I’m thinking of you.”
Day 3. Don’t leave each other without a hug and/or kiss.
Day 4. Pray together.
Day 5. Tell your spouse that you appreciate all they do for the family.
Day 6. Focus on being KIND.
Day 7. Ask your spouse if they need help with anything (housework, decisions, etc.)
WEEK TWO:
Day 8. Praise your spouse in front of them.
Day 9. Take a (sweet/silly) picture together.
Day 10. Do something seductive.
Day 11. Hold hands.
Day 12. Focus on being PATIENT.
Day 13. Write your spouse a love letter. (No time? Try a simple love note on a Post-it)
Day 14. Plan something together: Date night, vacation, etc.
WEEK THREE:
Day 15. Tell jokes and just laugh together!
Day 16. Ask your spouse about their hopes and dreams (and really PAY ATTENTION!)
Day 17. Pay your spouse at least five compliments.
Day 18. Focus on being UNDERSTANDING.
Day 19. Ask your spouse what you can do to make your marriage better.
Day 20. Reflect on your accomplishments together and praise your spouse for doing their part.
Day 21. Think about how it feels to be your spouse for a day.
WEEK FOUR:
Day 22. Make/Buy their favorite meal.
Day 23. Look at your spouse lovingly and with admiring eyes.
Day 24. Focus on being LOVING.
Day 25. Buy your spouse a small token of appreciation.
Day 26. Think positive thoughts about your spouse.
Day 27. Count your blessings together.
Day 28. Give each other uninterrupted, media free time.
Day 29. Text your spouse: “I can’t wait to see you tonight.”
Day 30. Reflect on the hardest/easiest day of your 30 day challenge.
After you take the challenge, you may want to do it again…and again. Be sure to challenge other couples to take it as well. It doesn’t matter if you start in the middle of the month. Just do it. What’s important is that you realize how important it is to connect, re-connect and STAY connected to your mate. Just watch the bond between you and your love grow stronger!
Are you up for the challenge?