One of the first principles I really “grasped” early in our marriage was the fact that my body was my wife’s, and more importantly her body was mine. And I learned that in church, so that made it even better!
For those non-church goers, here is what the bible says,
“The wife’s body does not belong only to her. It also belongs to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong only to him. It also belongs to his wife.” – 1 Corinthians 7:4
To a 26-year-old man this was a true revelation! To me and my buddies that meant once you got married, you had “access” 24/7! Marriage was going to be the BOMB! But I am not so sure my wife embraced it the same as I did.
Marriage 101
I felt like, I see the booty, I like the booty, I grab the booty. I like the way it feels, and she likes the way it felt. It was all good. She didn’t always feel like that.
I slowly began to learn a valuable marriage lesson:
I see the booty, I like the booty, I grab the booty. #MarriedBooty [Click to Tweet]
What you like doesn’t always translate into what your spouse likes.
If she was in the mood, then the good feeling may be mutual. But if she had one of those days, or things weren’t the best between us, that grabbing may get on her nerves!
I learned my lesson
When we were young in our marriage that could have caused some major drama. But overtime I learned what she liked, and didn’t like. And more importantly I learned when she liked it, and when she didn’t like it.
Fellas, you know that your wife may like something one minute, and then not like it the next, right? If not, you’ll learn.
So, now when I see the booty, I like the booty, and I want to grab the booty, I may put my hand on the small of her back. This may lead to my hand naturally moving to where I want it, in a way she likes it.
How do other couples view booty grabbing in marriage?
After talking with my wife about this, and learning that my booty grabbing is not as detestable as it used to be (I guess I learned my lesson). I decided to see how other couples viewed it in marriage.
Is it acceptable? Does it get on the wife’s nerves? Or do they love it and can’t get enough?
Check out some of the reactions I got from my Facebook Page:
“My hubby does that … gets on my nerves lol”
“Acceptable and a turn on”
“I do my wife and she does me…love it.”
“Acceptable turn on and likely to be returned lol”
So, grabbing his wife’s booty may not be such a bad thing. Shoot, from the comments if he is not grabbing her booty, she may be like “what’s up???” As for me, I learned my lesson. I’m going to keep doing what I’m doing. 😉
BMWK – Is grabbing your spouse’s booty a good, or bad thing?