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10 Things Every Single Needs To Know About Marriage

The world is filled with people who desire marriage, but have no idea what real married life entails. We often run into people who share that their parents have been married for decades but they still don’t know how they overcame issues that arose. All of these issues were resolved behind bedroom doors, so their children never got to see the resolution or the process that proceeded it.

Since that is the case we thought that we would help you out. On the next few pages you’ll find information that no one ever tells you before you get married. Taken to heart, the information on these next few pages may  keep you from marrying the wrong person or getting divorced once you do make that step.

Check out my list of 10 things that every single needs to know about marriage. After you read it let me know if I left anything out, if there is anything here that you didn’t already know, or if the list was dead on.

I: MARRIAGE WILL NOT FILL THE VOID IN YOUR LIFE

Some people think that a loving spouse will make them whole, but that is far from the truth. One of the best things that you can do to prepare yourself for marriage is to work on you, before you say I do!

II: MARRIAGE IS NOT 50/50

Marriage is not 50/50. Marriage is 100/100. In order for your marriage to thrive you’ll have to give everything that you can at that time to the relationship. 50% just won’t do.

III: THERE ARE NO DEALBREAKERS

When you get married you need to put all of your chips on the table and bet on your future. What we’ve learned from talking to couples who have been through all types of situations, is that there are no true dealbreakers. We’ve seen couples survive and thrive after financial crisis, infidelity and more. If both of you are dedicated to the marriage you can make it work.

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