As a Certified Relationship Coach, I easily get caught up in reality TV when the focus is on love, dating, and marriage. Lessons learned from dating shows are actually helpful to those who care about love and how they show up in their relationship. You can often learn what not to do. I watch, learn and take note of how people turn into couples and how they experience dating and … [Read more...]
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Singles, Have You Settled Just Because We’ve Been in a Pandemic?
Since the pandemic began we have all had to accept this new normal and settle for a new way of living and being. Settling, which is defined as accepting or agreeing to something that one considers to be less than satisfactory, has become even more familiar as we navigate through this unfamiliar space. We don’t know when we will go back to normal. So everything has been … [Read more...]
The Conversations Single Women Are Having Right Now and How It May Be Affecting Marriage Prospects
Some of the most interesting concepts, comments, and thoughts come from conversations about marriage. As a relationship professional, I often find myself giving single women dating advice to help prepare them for marriage. I have learned, through those discussions, that what we say about marriage and how we express our needs may have an impact on the type of person that may be … [Read more...]
9 Marriage Tips for Single Women from a Happily Married Wife
I love talking relationships and marriage with my single friends. One of the things I value most is that we can be candid with one another. We share the truth about the realities of each of our experiences. As a Relationship Coach, I use my training, knowledge, and my own marriage experience to create outlets where I can provide marriage tips for single women. Marriage Tips … [Read more...]
10 Virtual Dating Ideas:Social Distancing while Dating
Social distancing while dating or virtual dating is the new normal. For those who want to stay connected to a crush or love interest, a webcam call is the safest option. This is the season when all the singles start looking good, preparing to meet someone to date. Ladies bring out the sundresses showing off their curves, and men wear tank tops showing off their muscles. In the … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Tell You’ve Found a Real Christian Spouse
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, many singles are bound to be looking for love. Too often, however, many end up looking for love in all the wrong places. In particular, some who wear the name "Christian" find themselves in a bind because, sadly, they believe the church is the last place they'll find a spouse who shares their values. If you're confused about how to … [Read more...]
3 Engagement Behaviors That Can Ruin Your Marriage
There's something about a great proposal and you want in. You've seen couples who are doing marriage right and you think you've met "the one." After seeking out marriage advice on google, from your pastor, and your closest married friends, you took the next step. "Will you marry me" has been asked and answered in the affirmative and you're preparing to walk down the aisle. But … [Read more...]
3 Times in Dating When You Shouldn’t Trust Your Gut and What to Do Instead
You meet a guy who's great on paper and things are going well. He's handsome, has a stable job, and by all accounts, seems like someone who has the potential to be a great partner. You should be happy, but you can't ignore this nagging feeling in your gut that makes you wonder if you can trust him. Should you trust your gut or let the feeling pass? 3 Times in Dating When You … [Read more...]
What Makes a Man Husband Material?
According to Urban Dictionary, the term "wifey material" describes a woman who possesses certain qualities that would make her a model wife. I'm sure many men would describe this type of woman as a perfect mix of style, substance, sass, and love or at least respect for sports. Aside from that, men appreciate her kindness, supportiveness, and caring nature. She's the type of … [Read more...]
Single, Dating, and Waiting Till Marriage: 4 Tips to Help You Abstain
If you’re single and trying to keep the golden door closed, you may often find yourself grappling for insight on how to stay on track with that goal. My husband and I dated for over two years and were proud to have made it to the altar without dipping in each other’s cookie jars! Waiting till marriage wasn’t easy, but we believed that it was certainly possible. In this … [Read more...]
Perfect On Paper or Perfect Chemistry? The Three C’s of Successful Relationships
As a dating coach, I preach a lot about making sure you choose a partner based on his or her character—and not simply because you have perfect chemistry together. Chemistry is a great feeling. But are you choosing to commit to someone's mind, body and soul just because you can’t stop thinking about him? Are you excited only because she takes your breath away when she smiles? … [Read more...]
4 Stages of a Relationship Built to Last
Relationships usually start out sweet. Both the man and woman put their best face forward and look forward to the moments they get to see each other. So why is the divorce rate in America at 50 percent? Well, although a relationship starts out sweet, it must make it through four different stages in order to last. No one should take these four stages of a relationship lightly. … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: 4 Unrealistic Relationship Expectations That Are Keeping You Single
Getting dating advice is not your typical thing. But some situations require help when you're just now sure how to deal. For example, it's 10 PM and you haven't heard from him all day. He told you he'd be taking the day off from work, so you expected he'd want to spend some extra time together. After all, you both are so busy in your powerful careers and free time is hard to … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: 5 Signs He’s Stringing You Along
Recently, an old friend crossed my path. Initially, with the pleasantries and friendly interactions, it appeared as if we might work on reconciling our friendship. However, just as quickly as the pleasantries began, so did the mixed messages, the flirty conversation coupled with the evasive behavior. When I confronted him, he played coy and attempted to downplay his actions. … [Read more...]
Trip to the Altar: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Engaged
A few weeks ago I spoke on a panel addressing dating, relationships, and all of the craziness that comes along with love. I thought I was prepared to address every possible question, but when someone asked me what were the things I wish I knew before I got engaged, it took me a moment to gather my thoughts. I hadn't thought about that before, but there were a plethora of things … [Read more...]