There are many women of faith that have gone in prayer and asked: "God where is my Boaz?" There are many churches that have preached to single women to continue waiting for Boaz. Yet despite all of your efforts, Boaz has not come, and frustration has taken his place. This can seem so unfair, but maybe there is a very good reason this blessing has been delayed. What could … [Read more...]
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6 Things Every Woman Should Know When Dating a Man With Children
I "met" Deesha Phillywaw through her book Co-parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce. I wish I read her work before I became a co-parent. While dating a man with children, I didn't take into account certain things thoroughly discussed in the chapters of the book. For instance, I wasn't used to being someone's second priority and having to … [Read more...]
Wake Up! 7 Signs He’s Stringing You Along
You have off-the-charts chemistry and he says he's never felt a connection like this with anyone else before. Maybe you've been dating for a while, but you don't know where you stand with him. Does he want something serious? Is he just moving slow? Or is he stringing you along? You should be excited that this super fine, successful man is pursuing you. So why do you feel uneasy … [Read more...]
Preparing to Become a Husband – 10 Tips For Single Men
My article, Preparing To Become A Wife - 10 Tips For Single Women, gave great tips for wives-to-be and inspired me to sit down and write out my thoughts on preparing to become a husband. In no way am I proclaiming perfection in any of these areas. But like any relationship, you have to work hard on the positives in order to become an ideal partner. Preparing to Become a … [Read more...]
Ladies: Here’s How to Recognize a Player and How to Avoid Being Played
In an episode of It’s Not You, It’s Men, host Rev Run and Tyrese discussed why player’s play. To avoid being played, it's important that you recognize signs your potential partner is giving off. Do not ignore those signs. Ladies: Here's How to Recognize a Player and How to Avoid Being Played In this article: Why do players play? How do you recognize when you are … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: How To Manifest the Man of Your Dreams With a 2019 Vision Board
What if I told you that 2019 is your year to manifest your heart's desire for love, companionship, and possibly even marriage? If the man of your dreams is what you want, what if I told you that one major step in your process to manifestation is to create a vision board? It worked for me. In fact, I met my husband a few months after I completed my board. Now, I want to help … [Read more...]
Moving Too Fast? 5 Signs You Should Pump the Brakes With Your Man
So you've spent three intense weeks together with this man you're dating and you can see yourself marrying him. But after coming up for air, friends and family alike are hinting you might need to slow down and pump the brakes on your relationship. While you're not the type to base your love life on what other people think, you do wonder if you're moving too fast in your … [Read more...]
How To Let Go And Let God Heal You From Past Relationship Hurt
To let go and let God is the only way to manage your past hurts and pains. It can fill your heart with joy, peace, and love so you can heal. In this article: A Prayer on How to Let Go and Let God Seeking Wholeness from God Start Healing with These Steps How to Let Go and Let God Help You Overcome the Pain and Hurt A Prayer on How to Let Go and Let … [Read more...]
When God Doesn’t Approve Of The Person You’re Dating
Is he the one? Is she the one? As singles, we’re used to asking these questions over and over whenever we date someone. We're hearing and seeking people’s advice and guidance regarding dating and relationships and often times, we look to family or our closest friends for their thoughts and trusted approval of the person we’re dating. But, how do you know what God has to say … [Read more...]
30 Year Old Virgin: Why I’m Waiting For Marriage To Have Sex
Four years ago, I can clearly remember committing to sexual abstinence. Up until my 30th birthday, I was officially a 30-year-old virgin. While this may be shocking for some, I know A LOT of women were in the same boat with me. I struggled with sharing my story, because of people's doubt and disbelief. Then it dawned on me that I'd be remiss not to give all the glory to God for … [Read more...]
What A Man Really Means When He Says He Just Wants To Be “Friends”
A guy who doesn't allow his relationships to go deeper may have commitment issues. Okay… maybe I’m being a little naïve here, but when a man is at a point in his life where he is looking for a mate, he isn’t on the dating scene looking for “friends.” I know, I know...your mate should be like your best friend and all of that, but most women and men of a certain age aren’t … [Read more...]
Christian Men Reveal Their 12 Reasons Why They Don’t Date Or Marry Christian Women; Part 2
To all the Christian ladies out there, are you wondering why Christian men prefer dating a non-Christian woman? When I started talking about this topic, I was surprised by how many single Christian men spoke up. They shared their own reasons as to why they no longer date or marry Christian women, and that is what I want to share with you all today. In this article: … [Read more...]
10 Reasons You’re Trying To Run From A Good Woman
We all want to know why men pull away from relationships -- why a man runs away from the love of a good woman will always be a question ladies everywhere will want the answer to. Today, we'll be listing down 10 of the main reasons why guys pull away in relationships and how they can change that mindset. Take note, men! Why Men Pull Away | 10 Reasons Why Men Run from … [Read more...]
3 Ways To Win The Heart Of A Strong Black Woman
Figuring out the ways on how to win a girl's heart is a challenge for every man. She is not to be trifled with. She has been forged through the burning sands of struggle, adversity, oppression, and discrimination. She has had to fight for everything she achieved — socially, politically, sexually, economically, relationally, and parentally. Who is she? Find out more about her … [Read more...]
3 Online Dating Tips When He Goes From Trying To Holla To Harassment
Ladies, if you've been checking out online dating sites recently, you must familiarize yourselves with some important online dating tips. Doing this will not just help you learn the online dating rules etiquette, but it'll also protect you from men who would want more from you. "I sent you three emails. You can't even say hi, huh? You wouldn't be able to recognize a good man … [Read more...]