Singles, it can be a challenge to learn how to forgive and apologize when it comes to relationships that ended negatively. Perhaps you were the dumper or the dumpee. Personally, I can’t stand breakups, but God has placed people in our lives for a time and a season, so we must be careful not to hold on to something not meant for us. How to Forgive | Letting Go of the Hurt In … [Read more...]
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Be A Strong Independent Woman
Being a strong, independent woman can be confusing at times. The definition of a strong woman supposedly is you never show weakness, while being an independent woman means you're self-reliant and usually don’t need anyone else. But the reality is, no one can go through life strong 24/7, and no one can live a life totally independent of other people. As I’ve written before as a … [Read more...]
10 Scriptures To Help You Heal After A Bad Breakup
Reading scriptures on healing can help mend a broken heart. When a relationship doesn’t work out, it can be very challenging to adjust to a life without that person. The amount of time the relationship lasted and how serious the commitment was will determine how long it takes you to move forward. Here, I'll share 10 scriptures on healing you can reflect on after a bad … [Read more...]
8 Must-Read Quotes to Avoid “Being Mary Jane”
You might have some favorite Being Mary Jane quotes if you're a fan of the show. As for me, I just may be the last African-American woman with cable who tuned into Being Mary Jane. Immediately, I was hooked. So much so, I watched back-to-back episodes on BET and stayed up way past my bedtime last night. And, I should say there are catchy quotes about being like Mary Jane every … [Read more...]
5 Things Men Love About Black Women
Ever heard men say “I love black women” and wondered what makes black women so special? While some say black men don’t want to date black women, I’m here to set the record straight and even asked some men to help me. Although they may not be so vocal about it, black men have good reasons why they like black women. To know what these are, check out this list. You're going to … [Read more...]
Poet Janette…Ikz No Longer Waiting And Shares Her “When God Said Yes” Love Story
Janette Ikz, a poet, was also praying for a man to love, just like other single women out there. Loving a man is one of the most memorable experiences a woman could ever have. But, the road to having that someone in a woman's life may be tough, and most women are willing to take on that path, even if it means they're simply waiting. Here, you'll learn how Janette Ikz found her … [Read more...]
Swiping for Love: 3 Black Dating Apps You Must Try
So you're open to the idea of online dating and willing to give it (another) shot, but not sure which dating sites should you use? Black dating apps like Soul Swipe, MELD, and BAE were created specifically for black people and offer more for the community than other dating apps. Here, I talk about these apps, and what each offers, to help you decide which app can finally help … [Read more...]
7 Clapbacks to Use When a Man Asks You “Why Are You Single?”
You finally put yourself back out there. You mustered up the courage to swipe right on Tinder. And after a few text messages he asks the dreaded question: "So why is a woman like you still single?" You start typing a response but then freeze. You've been single a long time. You think to yourself, "If I tell him why I'm still single after all these years, he might think … [Read more...]
What’s Worse Being Jealous or Crazy? I Think Worse Is Never Being in Love
What's worse looking jealous or crazy? The answer to this question depends on your situation and on how you react to the things around you. And, although looking and feeling jealous and crazy really happens at some point in our lives, never being in love might be worse. Let's check out how an article of JetMag.com thinks about the question, "what's worse being jealous or … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why “Mr. Steal Your Grandma” is Winning and Proving Age Ain’t Nothing But a Number in Love
Mr Steal Your Grandma is 54, wears skinny jeans, and his salt-and-pepper beard is taking the Internet by storm. It seems the ladies have fallen in love with the Houston native Irvin Randle, better known as #MrStealYourGrandma, after photos of the fit and fashionable hot grandpa of two grandchildren began trending online. How Mr Steal Your Grandma Became An Online Sensation In … [Read more...]
Singles: Are You Equally Yoked In Dating and What Does It Really Mean?
What does equally yoked in dating mean? You're digging him. You think she's dope. Then, you suddenly discover you're not equally yoked. Or are you? It surely is confusing, but the answer may surprise you! What Does Equally Yoked Mean? In this article: An Introduction to Equally Yoked Meaning The Term "Equally Yoked" Is Not Used in the Scripture At All The Scripture … [Read more...]
Ladies: What to Do When He Says “I Don’t Know What I Want” In a Relationship
You just had a really nice date, and he tells you he's interested in seeing you again. But when you ask him what he's looking for in a relationship he says, "I don't know what I want." What does he mean? Or, you're 3 months into dating a handsome, successful brotha who has been kind and consistent with you, but he hasn't brought up the commitment talk yet. When you ask him … [Read more...]
Ghosted? 3 Possible Reasons He Disappeared After a Great Date
You finally met a good one from that dating app you feel like you've been chained to for the last 3 months, and he asked you for a meet and greet. You met up for appetizers and the conversation was mentally stimulating. He seemed to be impressed by you too, which is refreshing considering the fact that men tend to be intimidated by your success. Plus, he was easy on the eyes! … [Read more...]
Finally Boo’d Up: Are You Scared of Messing It Up?
You're finally boo'd up and you're singing that new Ella Mai song: "Feelings, so deep in my feelings No, this ain't really like me Can't control my anxiety Feeling, like I'm touching the ceiling When I'm with you I can't breathe Boy, you do something to me." This man could be The One! He takes your breath away with his kindness, thoughtfulness and sincerity. … [Read more...]
What Are Some Pros and Cons of Dating an Entrepreneur?
Dr. Buckingham, I have been single for some time because I am very picky when it comes to selecting and dating men. I have done extremely well for myself as an attorney, but I get tired of the long hours and days. Nevertheless, I love the security that I have on my job. Here is my dilemma. I recently met this guy who I like a lot and he appears to be a good fit for me. However, … [Read more...]