What’s worse looking jealous or crazy? The answer to this question depends on your situation and on how you react to the things around you. And, although looking and feeling jealous and crazy really happens at some point in our lives, never being in love might be worse. Let’s check out how an article of JetMag.com thinks about the question, “what’s worse being jealous or crazy?”
What’s Worse Looking Jealous or Crazy? | A Closer Look
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Beyoncé’s Lemonade Visual Album
Beyoncé shocked the world with her epic “Lemonade” visual album. In true Yoncé fashion, she had us all lined up, either condemning or praising her work. And, “Lemonade” fueled many debates, but there was one particular lyric that struck an internal dispute among many women: What’s Worse Looking Jealous or Crazy?
To Have Never Known True Love Is Worse
The answer to this very intriguing question is “neither,” according to this JetMag.com writer. In her opinion, crazy and jealous can be expected, but what’s worse is to have never known true love at all.
After eight years of being single and having more than a few bad dates to reference, it is difficult to believe in the idea of love in a society that makes it virtually impossible to connect with someone.
I mean, what is Tinder? Why are dating apps designed in the same manner that you would order a pizza? “Yes, I would like a large, 6’5 athletic Black man with a career and a side of moral values, please. Hold the kids.” How do you really gauge if someone is feeling you through abbreviations and text messages? And, if you do get a chance to communicate with someone, you get random texts like, “You kno I’m feelin’ u gurl. We ain’t gotta be all serious. I can be just like your sex toy or something.”
This was an actual text message I received from a guy I exchanged numbers with while waiting in line for Chinese food. I read it when I got home and wondered what it was about my gym outfit and egg foo young that made this guy think, “She’s going.”
Needless to say, dating is a little harder now than the movies have led us to believe. But what happens when you actually do find someone that takes you seriously, that says all of the right things, and that actually gives a crap about your bad day without the conversation leading to some quip about coming over to “Make it better?” What happens when you need to be vulnerable when you’ve been navigating the dating world with an Iron Man suit around your heart? Well, the short answer is that you lose your mind. You go crazy. I don’t mean to ruin the end for you, but you are not going to get through this transition without a bit of pushback from your soul.
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Learning from what the writer of the article said about the question “What’s worse looking jealous or crazy?” is true for many of us. Emotional insecurity is misleading, and it can be a huge reason for a breakup. But, for you to fight this insecurity, allow love to flow into you, and experience a feeling you always deserve. Don’t be afraid to love!
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Editor’s Note – This post was originally published on April 28, 2016, and has been updated for quality and relevancy.