Can’t Date Jesus
A lot of Christian women have lofty, unrealistic expectations of men. If the man isn’t perfect like Jesus, then he needs to be like the pastor. In the minds of these men, they think many women are either trying to gain the attention of the pastor, marry the pastor or date his clone. They think Christian women need to allow a man to have the ability to be himself, make mistakes and be human.
I must admit, I was shocked by some of these statements, I’m guilty of a couple myself. But please understand, this article isn’t meant to divide, shed blame, or stir up controversy. It’s only meant to address the real feelings some Christians feel when it comes to the topic of dating. And we just want to give you the best Christian dating advice. Hopefully, both of these articles have shed one light on the work that needs to be done and/or the stereotypes that need to be broken in our relationships. When you know better, you can do better.
BMWK – What do you think? Do you agree with these points about why Christian men prefer dating non-Christian women?
Editor’s Note – This post was originally published on Nov 16, 2016, and has been updated for quality and relevancy.